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Member Services
on 2/16/12 6:43 am - Irvine, CA
Topic: Open letter regarding member privacy and recent Facebook postings:
Dear ObesityHelp members,

ObesityHelp is committed to our members’ privacy.  Since our inception, we have endeavored to protect the sanctity of our members’ privacy.  Over the years, we have been asked to sell and lease our database or grant unrestricted access to the same.  We have continually refused all such request as we deem our membership to be our dearest obligation.

ObesityHelp conducts operations in a social network environment which means postings, content, blogs, and any other ancillary information sharing on our website message boards is 100% open and searchable by all major search engines.  This means that posting on ObesityHelp requires members to be conscientious of their own levels of comfort when posting any information to the Internet.  To support the anonymity of our members we instituted:  the screen name process (pseudonyms instead of real names), customizable avatars (no photo required), private messaging (posting on message boards not required), and email privacy (your private email is never displayed by ObesityHelp); just to name a few.  This means that anyone can protect their name and privacy simply by taking advantage of the privacy options already included in our site. 

Recent linking campaign on Facebook

The linking process was implemented to support threads that the company deemed as universally appropriate and supportive to those that suffer from obesity.  With that core support desire in mind, approximately (7) threads were linked to from Facebook.  This was done over a period of 3 to 4 days.

Technical clarity

Unlike linking to something with a single unique record locator (URL) when a company site links to a threaded comment [such as ObesityHelp] the Facebook system ‘spiders’ (searches) the URL content for a photo, first few words within the content, and even attached names.  This is not something that ObesityHelp initially considered to be at issue as search engines have had access to this information since our inception.  However, many members felt the inclusion of their photo (avatar), screen name, and short blurb of the content was a privacy violation.  Our intent was never to cause anyone’s privacy to be violated but our effort was to promote support for the individual threaded comments.

To alleviate the issue, ObesityHelp immediately ceased posting threads.  At present, only content (articles, blogs, and educational material) is being linked from the company Facebook page.  


Why do we feel linking is necessary at all?  Support and education are not limited to a singular social network.  ObesityHelp operates a Facebook page for the same reason that millions of other companies do; our members are there also.


Was a policy change implemented?


In short, no.   The linking of content from various locations including newsletters, Facebook, and other sites has always been something that ObesityHelp has done.  However, what made this particular posting different was the way that Facebook automatically grabbed information from the linking source (user generated content on ObesityHelp).  


Unless manually removed or changed, the linking takes place with default information included: avatar or photo, link, and minor portions of the content.  This was not something that ObesityHelp considered initially bad as the information is public via Google, Yahoo, etc.  Once it was brought to our attention that some of the links might contain information that would be considered by some as ‘private’ we immediately ceased posting in this linking method.  Please be assured that no policy change has taken place.


How will ObesityHelp handle manual linking on Facebook in the future?


In the future, should ObesityHelp plan to link to specific threads, the company has decided to remove any such identifying markers that would otherwise cause the link to be identified to any specific individual or group.  The purpose of the Facebook linking is not to single-out any one specific poster but help promote a general open discussion of the topic(s) at hand.


At present, ObesityHelp is committed to only link to articles, featured bloggers, and educational (resource) material. Our commitment to our members’ privacy is un-wavered we have not changed any policy nor have we engaged in any practice with the intent to share any private data of our membership. Member data remains our closest guarded responsibility; a responsibility that we take seriously and have acted accordingly.

Sincerely,
ObesityHelp Inc.

Member Services Department

andytamiblack
on 2/14/12 11:57 pm - NM
Topic: RE: VGB
dont do it go with gastric bypass i had vbg almost 7 years ago and i regret it i wish i would have had gb. im now starting the process of seeing if i can gb now.
    
Member Services
on 2/14/12 4:22 am - Irvine, CA
Topic: TERMS OF SERVICES (MODIFIED)
Dear ObesityHelp Members,

We want to let you know that our Terms of Service has been modified.  Please check out our revised Terms of Service
http://www.obesityhelp.com/content/terms-of-service.html.

All modifications have been made in our ongoing efforts to improve the experience and provide support, education and information to our ObesityHelp Members.

Sincerely,
ObesityHelp Management and Staff

mattiebel
on 2/9/12 4:01 am
Topic: RE: looking for patients from Dr Elariny in Northern VA...HELP
is Dr. E. in your insurance's list of preferred providers - if not - they won't pay him
as much - i'm a patient of elariney's & have had blue cross care first & they never asked me
for anything up front - i have a great plan though & i believe he's in their network -

you have to stay in network to save $$ - if i had to do it over again - i would have went somewhere else though - Dr. Anez maybe  - insurance could approve but not pay much - maybe you have a low option plan - not hi
sonjakp
on 2/7/12 8:22 am - douglasville , GA
VSG on 03/30/12
Topic: RE: Dr. Aceves.
Thank you , I Can't wait I'm so Excited to be on the Weight Loss bench like Y'all
Suzanne B.
on 2/7/12 3:57 am - OR
Topic: RE: Hello! New to this site!!
On February 6, 2012 at 7:51 AM Pacific Time, brandymarie81 wrote:
I am scheduled for surgery on 3/1 and can't wait!  I know it will be hard but in the end will be worth it!  I need to lose 241 lbs to get to my goal weight...and was curious if anyone has lost this much or more already.  Any tips?  How much should I be able to lose by september?  I would love to be down at least 100lbs by then...I am going on an Alaskan Cruise!  Think that is possible?
Hi,

Well, I thought a lot like you and asked some of the same questions.  It is hard to say to you YES you will loose 100 pounds by Sept.  Everyone loses at different rates depending on how much they have to lose, what they are eating, and if they are doing any exercise.

Don't set yourself up to fail by getting to Sept and not losing 100 pounds.  It took me 14 months to lose 105 pounds.  I am older so I lose weight slower.  How about taking it a week at a time. Then a month at a time.  At first it comes off pretty fast.

This is what my Weight Loss looks like.

Date

Weight

Loss

Total lbs lost

lbs to lose

 

9/21/2008

225

 

 

100

 

10/21/2008

217

8

8

92

 

11/21/2008

205

12

20

80

 

12/1/2008

195

10

30

70

 

1/12/2009

184

11

41

59

 

2/9/2009

180

4

45

55

 

2/25/2009

173

7

52

48

 

3/24/2009

169

4

56

44

 

4/15/2009

161

8

64

36

 

5/15/2009

151

10

74

26

 

6/15/2009

145

6

80

94

 

7/15/2009

140

5

85

15

 

8/15/2009

135

5

90

10

 

9/15/2009

130

5

95

5

 

10/15/2009

125

5

100

0

 

1/15/2010

120

5

105

-5

 



I wish you great success.  Keep me posted to how you are doing.

Hugs,
Suzanne
Suzanne B
Eugene, OR
Dr. Aceves
10/21/2008 
Start lbs 225
Now 120
Londa7
on 2/7/12 12:56 am
DS on 07/10/13
Topic: RE: Dr. Aceves.
Congratulations!! I researched and researched and I finally decided on Dr Aceves, too. Nina is great and provides tons of info. Dr Aceves has so many great reviews. I'm currently working on losing the pre-op weight so I can have DS surgery lap instead of open. Good luck to you !!

Londa7        

                
brandymarie81
on 2/5/12 11:51 pm - Conroe, TX
Topic: Hello! New to this site!!
I am scheduled for surgery on 3/1 and can't wait!  I know it will be hard but in the end will be worth it!  I need to lose 241 lbs to get to my goal weight...and was curious if anyone has lost this much or more already.  Any tips?  How much should I be able to lose by september?  I would love to be down at least 100lbs by then...I am going on an Alaskan Cruise!  Think that is possible?
kam0520
on 2/5/12 7:57 am - AL
Topic: RE: new to site - leg soreness, what to eat?????
My husband and I are 6 days out, we got to go to "full liquids" after 2 days, but nothing too substantial.  We've lived off grits, yogurt, protein shakes, mashed potatos, lately a little cream cheese on melba toast (we were told we could have 1 toast per meal).  We're really burned out on the same stuff too!

Our next phase will be on the 15th and I am looking forward to chicken salad.  They said to make it with canned chicken, a little low fat mayo, and the juice from pickle relish since we wont be able to have the actual pickle parts yet.  Good luck!
kam0520
on 2/5/12 7:51 am - AL
Topic: RE: 5 Days Post Op-Pain in the stomach area?
I get a pain when I stand up, if I put my arms up over my head it kind of pulls, but, one of my incisions is really swollen too.  Are you able to lay comfortably?  That is where I am most painful.  
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