Seriously, dont be an A** in the chat

I freakin HATE this stupid OH Chat. Okay, well not the chat itself, some of the RUDE people that are in there. SO FREAKIN what if you are 5 years out and you think you know everything, that doesnt mean you have to be so rude to ppl that are just a few weeks or even days out. That doesnt call for attitude when an innocent person ask a simple freakin question. That should even go for the forms that we post on here to. Why is it that ppl think they have to be rude and dis respectful just because "THEY KNOW EVERYTHING" there is to know about any surgical procedure (and they dont even have a medical degree)????? UGH. Sorry, I really needed to get that off my chest.

I'm with you!  I may have had surgery 5 years ago, but I'm certainly no expert! I only know my body, my experience. How can people judge us when they have no idea who I am, what I do, or what my cir****tances are?!  I've stopped going to the chat here for the same reason. I just rely on my friends who actually DO know me and don't get their jollys from making others feel inferior.  Good luck and be strong!