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1) I DID have respect... for MYSELF & my family... to keep quiet.  Right up until you started making me a part of your mean-spirited jokes at my expense.  After what you did to us, I don't owe you any respect whatsoever.  And just as with what I've written here, it didn't take a rocket scientist to figure out who you were referring to.  Inapproriate for a WLS forum?  It has everything to do with wls.  Mental health.  I begged you to get some help.  Even before the whole Matt issue, you were exhibiting inappropriate behavior, & I told you so.  I was worried about you & told you that too.  You STILL need help.

2.  Yes you CAN influence the ulcers.  Have you stopped eating the wrong, acidic foods?  Have you stopped drinking coffee?  Have you stopped drinking alcohol?  Are you still sucking on those candies?  So, yes you absolutely can create them.  In spite of the fact that you SHOULD be able to have all those things, the point is YOU CAN'T, yet you continue to do it anyway.  Is that not self destructive?  Your hospitalizations were certainly indicated, & I'm sorry you have had to go through all that, but you have not done what needed to be done to avoid them either.  So tell me again how none of this is wls-related?  You are a poster child for what should NOT be done.  Google Munchhausen Syndrome...you may find some clarity there.

3.  I'm glad that you freely admit that you have made jokes about me at my expense.  I did not do a thing to warrant such treatment.  I was a good, loyal, trusting, & caring friend to you.  I trusted you with a lot, to include the friendship with my son.  I really thought that it was so nice of you to think of him while I had to be in FL.  But you abused my son, took advantage of him, & you betrayed me & your husband.  My own personal spin?  Ummm...not so much.  I have seen your latest emails that you are sending out to people telling them, and I quote..." She was so aggressive that I actually had to block her numbers from my cell phone, my home phone, I had to block her email, block her on facebook, on OH and various other things."  And you say you don't lie.  That's a lie right there!  Even in that parting letter you sent me, you said yourself that you did that for your husband.  You kept texting Matt, even after I told you over & over to leave us alone...you said "I need closure."  Well, your closure be damned!  You terrorized my family, for goodness sake!!  Closure?  Do you think I cared about what your needs were?  NO.  You didn't care about anyone's needs but your own, & at who's expense?  My son & your husband!  Not spreading rumors?  Really?  Did you or did you not tell Theresa Marie that I was telling people that all her heart problems were fake?  Where would she get such an idea from?  Certainly not from me.  That poor woman has had open heart surgery...there but for the grace of God, go I!  I care very deeply for her & what she is going through.  So you go tell her that you didn't say such things.  I NEVER said she was faking any of it.  That's just mean.  And ANOTHER LIE.  And you wonder why I finally posted all this stuff?  You have set out on a mission of your own to discredit me, tarnish my reputation, & ruin my credibility, & I'm supposed to just sit here & take it?  I think I've endured enough of your poison for much too long.  It just sucks that someone finally came along to show you for what you really are...a very twisted, sick, dillusional individual with no regard for anyone.  PLEASE get some professional help.  And once & for all, leave me, my family, & my LOYAL friends alone.  You've done quite enough for a lifetime!

 

How interesting that her post is deleted.  Don't know by whom, but IF anyone would like to know what was said, I have it & will share privately if asked for it.  Geez...I'm so sick of this.

I deleted the post because I will not perpetuate this any further.  I do not feel the need to defend myself against lies and I will not fuel your fire.  I don't know what you expect to gain from this and frankly, I don't care.