Mourning the loss of.....

~~Theresa Marie~~
on 8/27/08 2:13 am - Closing in on SkinnyVille, VA
My fat (well fatter) chic clothes. I am in cleaning up lots of things in my house and one of those things are the clothes that are just lying around, with no purpose. I tried on several, more than several pairs of jeans & pants. I knew, in my mind, that they would be too big but I just had to see. And yay! To my approval, they were huge on me. Some more bigger than others but they were so huge on me, through the legs and hips. They completely swallowed me!! Soooo....

I am boxing them up along with shirts & blouses that are too big as well & will be either giving them to someone who wants them or shipping them off to the Goodwill. Anyone want them let me know. They are mostly sizes 26 but may have a few a size smaller or bigger.

Thanks for reading. Just had to share!
Theresa Marie
Lap RNY  - April 30, 2008
Open heart surgery (mitral valve repair & MAZE) - April 13, 2009
356/297.5/152.5/170/150 - consult/surgery morn/now/dr goal/my goal
Skinnyville is NO longer miles away...  It's a mere walk to the corner!!
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Melissa N.
on 8/27/08 2:17 am - Stafford, VA

Hmm, I might be interested in some 26/24s.  That is about where I am at depending on the style.  Shirts though, you are a different hight then me so the pants probably won't do. LOL 

I know the feeling on the clothes swollowing you!  Doesn't it feel great.  I plan on going through my closet this weekend.

415/375/180/175
highest/surgery day/current/ goal
 

 
Brooke O.
on 8/27/08 2:39 am - Petersburg, VA
I am still too big for them, but would love them because I know I will be getting smaller. Whatever Melissa wants give to her because she needs them now. But would love to have them for when I can get in them!

CONGRATS ON HAVING YOUR CLOTHES FALL OFF!!!!
Mom to Alex age 9
Wife to Sean married 5/29/99

And one bean on the way. EDD 6/22/11
lysb
on 8/27/08 5:10 am - Alexandria, VA
TM - good work!  i'm so happy for you! lys

 

~ Julie ~
on 8/27/08 6:11 am - Reston, VA
RNY on 04/18/06 with
That's great! I remember how bittersweet that was... giving up stuff I had loved to wear, but that just did not fit me anymore.

Just don't forget to save one of your favorite outfits as a reminder. In fact, I just tried on my preop clothes the other day (we were cleaning out a closet) and had a good laugh at how MC Hammer would have been proud of my pants.

Also, I had an XL shirt that was a  "goal" shirt that I ended up saving as well, because I grew down into it, and then IT got too big, too. I am amazed to look at this shirt, because I can remember being preop and thinking to myself, "yeah right, I will NEVER fit into something that small". You might want to find a similar article of clothing -- something you think you'll NEVER be able to wear because it's too small. You'll be surprised.

Good luck on finding newer, cooler stuff to replace your clothes!



Julie
399    /371  /173.2/155
initial/preop/now/goal


The tough part of WLS is not the first year, it's those that follow.
    
Kitty Kat
on 8/27/08 6:18 am - Richmond, VA
Hey Theresa,

Congrats on being able to get rid of your larger sized clothing! More wow moments are sure to come!



Kitty Kat - Lap RNY 29th Jan 03
Blessed Momma to Kayla & Nora
Sober since 25th Aug 07 
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Thankful for the easy, grateful for the hard & hopeful for tomorrow.



cathya
on 8/27/08 6:33 am - Orlando, FL
Interesting choice of words, Mourning.  It really is that isn't it?  I remember feeling the same way.  I held up a particular outfit that I had felt so good in and was alittle afraid that that person was dead and did I really want her to die. After all, I knew her and all her quirks.  Who is this new person I see in the mirror.  Well she (I) didn'tdie.  I just got better and better and you will too.  Look forward -- to all the new memories you will make in the new "smaller" version of you.

Conrats on your accomplishment.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Worry looks around, Sorry looks back, Faith looks UP...

Cathy Alphin
OH Certified Support Group Leader & Coach
Orlando, FL

Christina R.
on 8/27/08 7:54 am - Reston, VA
You description is so accurate.....I felt the same way....although at times I AM that woman still....just in a different body getting a different and new (read: uncomfortable) kind of attention. Ahh to have the head catch up.....it does eventually right?!

Congrats Teresa Marie....it's just one step on this journey...one big wonderful step.

Christina
"Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass - it is about learning how to dance in the rain." - Unknown
"Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we might as well dance." - Unknown

vagirl00
on 8/27/08 7:29 am
RNY on 09/19/07 with
Congrats on being at the point where you do have to say goodbye to old friends.  The nice thing is, as you say goodbye, you get to welcome new ones.  :)
Cindy   Beach    

5'9"   347/200/186/180

The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.

....Helen Keller

(deactivated member)
on 8/27/08 10:00 am - Fredericksburg, VA
RNY on 02/22/06 with
Congratulations Theresa!!  It is always such a great feeling to get into once tight clothes and find that not only are they no longer not tight, but they swamp you! You are doing great! Enjoy the feeling!! There are more to come!

Jackie

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