Mourning the loss of.....
My fat (well fatter) chic clothes. I am in cleaning up lots of things in my house and one of those things are the clothes that are just lying around, with no purpose. I tried on several, more than several pairs of jeans & pants. I knew, in my mind, that they would be too big but I just had to see. And yay! To my approval, they were huge on me. Some more bigger than others but they were so huge on me, through the legs and hips. They completely swallowed me!! Soooo....
I am boxing them up along with shirts & blouses that are too big as well & will be either giving them to someone who wants them or shipping them off to the Goodwill. Anyone want them let me know. They are mostly sizes 26 but may have a few a size smaller or bigger.
Thanks for reading. Just had to share!
I am boxing them up along with shirts & blouses that are too big as well & will be either giving them to someone who wants them or shipping them off to the Goodwill. Anyone want them let me know. They are mostly sizes 26 but may have a few a size smaller or bigger.
Thanks for reading. Just had to share!
Hmm, I might be interested in some 26/24s. That is about where I am at depending on the style. Shirts though, you are a different hight then me so the pants probably won't do. LOL
I know the feeling on the clothes swollowing you! Doesn't it feel great. I plan on going through my closet this weekend.
I am still too big for them, but would love them because I know I will be getting smaller. Whatever Melissa wants give to her because she needs them now. But would love to have them for when I can get in them!
CONGRATS ON HAVING YOUR CLOTHES FALL OFF!!!!
CONGRATS ON HAVING YOUR CLOTHES FALL OFF!!!!
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Wife to Sean married 5/29/99
And one bean on the way. EDD 6/22/11
Wife to Sean married 5/29/99
And one bean on the way. EDD 6/22/11
That's great! I remember how bittersweet that was... giving up stuff I had loved to wear, but that just did not fit me anymore.
Just don't forget to save one of your favorite outfits as a reminder. In fact, I just tried on my preop clothes the other day (we were cleaning out a closet) and had a good laugh at how MC Hammer would have been proud of my pants.![](http://images.obesityhelp.com/_shared/images/smiley/msn/biggrin2.gif)
Also, I had an XL shirt that was a "goal" shirt that I ended up saving as well, because I grew down into it, and then IT got too big, too. I am amazed to look at this shirt, because I can remember being preop and thinking to myself, "yeah right, I will NEVER fit into something that small". You might want to find a similar article of clothing -- something you think you'll NEVER be able to wear because it's too small. You'll be surprised.
Good luck on finding newer, cooler stuff to replace your clothes!
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Julie
Just don't forget to save one of your favorite outfits as a reminder. In fact, I just tried on my preop clothes the other day (we were cleaning out a closet) and had a good laugh at how MC Hammer would have been proud of my pants.
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Also, I had an XL shirt that was a "goal" shirt that I ended up saving as well, because I grew down into it, and then IT got too big, too. I am amazed to look at this shirt, because I can remember being preop and thinking to myself, "yeah right, I will NEVER fit into something that small". You might want to find a similar article of clothing -- something you think you'll NEVER be able to wear because it's too small. You'll be surprised.
Good luck on finding newer, cooler stuff to replace your clothes!
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Julie
Hey Theresa,
Congrats on being able to get rid of your larger sized clothing! More wow moments are sure to come!
Congrats on being able to get rid of your larger sized clothing! More wow moments are sure to come!
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Interesting choice of words, Mourning. It really is that isn't it? I remember feeling the same way. I held up a particular outfit that I had felt so good in and was alittle afraid that that person was dead and did I really want her to die. After all, I knew her and all her quirks. Who is this new person I see in the mirror. Well she (I) didn'tdie. I just got better and better and you will too. Look forward -- to all the new memories you will make in the new "smaller" version of you.
Conrats on your accomplishment.
Conrats on your accomplishment.
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Worry looks around, Sorry looks back, Faith looks UP...
Cathy Alphin
OH Certified Support Group Leader & Coach
Orlando, FL
You description is so accurate.....I felt the same way....although at times I AM that woman still....just in a different body getting a different and new (read: uncomfortable) kind of attention. Ahh to have the head catch up.....it does eventually right?!
Congrats Teresa Marie....it's just one step on this journey...one big wonderful step.
Congrats Teresa Marie....it's just one step on this journey...one big wonderful step.
Christina
"Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass - it is about learning how to dance in the rain." - Unknown
"Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we might as well dance." - Unknown