I must be doing something right

WE are getting there! You are really trying I can tell. Not giving lots of major kudos just yet but its cause I WANT you to keep trying. Love you!

Yes, sweetie we are getting there. It is a long process and with your help I will make it. I want to get healthy and be able to live to see my  grandkids grow up. My biggest thanks goes to you and I love you so much.

Good job, Pat.  As my Mama used to say, nothing worth having comes easy.  Even though you haven't had surgery yet, you are still experiencing much of what we all are going through on a daily basis, so you keep working with Kat's help & who knows, maybe you won't even need the surgery.

You know you might be right and I will not need the surgery but I am still looking into it.