Surgiversary...1 Year

One year ago today, at this very time, I was sitting in the waiting room at MCV with my sister, listening to a Social Worker stumble and stumble trying to help a Spanish speaking mother. I was serene, composed and ready for the next step. Now, may steps have passed: -122 pounds, normal cholesteral and triglycerides, zero cellulitis, zero reflux, zero snoring, sitting at BOOTHES not just table w/chair, hiking, jogging, loss , new work (summer electrical), more surgery (hyst), scare w/depression, recovery and now new love. How can this be I, Lois? Last night I went to visit a very ill friend in Roanoke. I wanted to visit Anna, but my very ill friend came first AND Anna didn't have a room yet as it turnedout. This was my first trip back to that hospital since Dusty and I walked out of it following Cody's death. I distracted myself on the walk out by talking sith my colleagues who had made the visit with me. I did it. I still cry, as I am now, but things are improving daily. My new sweetheart is a tremendous support and wonderful, attentive partner. Love is so much sweeter at 56 than at 20 BY FAR. When you find the right person, it is so OBVIOUS and so EASY--from the very beginning there is no doubt. I am not a gusher, so will stop now, but wanted to convey how unbelievably happy I am. Worries--naught, with the exception of not getting in AS MUCH hiking and trail running as I would like. I WILL do some uphill walking after work today, waiting for Dust to come pick me up. Tennis season is fast approaching, but with Wayne's schedule it won't cause too much distress. Guess I will have to substitute tennis for hiking for a few months. WLS has hastened my return to LOIS--the BC (before children) happy, fit, independent 30 year old who had life by the tail. It helped me through my loss and through my surgery AND also to get in shape for my new love, the consummate outdoorsman. Hugs and happiness to all, Lois

Lois - I am so happy for you! Your happiness is obvious and congratulations on your new found love! It is always better to have someone to share your life with. You have indeed come a long way and have worked very hard to overcome grief and health issues on the way. I am so proud of you and you are an inspiration to others! Congratulations on your year of success - you deserve so much credit for being where you are!! Jackie

Lois, what a beautiful post. I can't believe it's been a year for you. Just seems like it was a few months ago. Where does time go. I know this has been a really trying year for you, as well as the best year of your life. I am so happy for you that you have found such a good companion, that you are able to be outdoors and do the things you love to do with such good health. What a great time you two are going to have. Have a fun life Lois, you're a good person and you deserve so much happiness. Take it all!! love donna

First let me start out by saying Congratulations ! When we did the conference this weekend and watched the video .. your before and after pics came up and I was so amazed ... you have truly worked your tool and are a true inspiration of someone who has been through so much, yet has triumphed over it all . I was sad when Joann said you would not be coming , but very happy when she told me why you where staying behind . I would have done the same thing . Having someone in your life that supports you , and truly cares about you and your goals is so worth it all . I wish you nothing but continued happines .. you so deserve it . There will be other conferences... and get togethers .. and we will see each other soon . Big hugs and much love , Natalie

Congrats, Lois. You have an amazing story and you inspire us all. I'm sure Cody is looking down and very proud of her Mom. Have a good day, Amber

Lois, Congratulations on the transformation that you have undergone over the past year. It has been quite remarkable and you have a wonderful eloquent way of expressing yourself and sharing your story. I'm very happy that you have found a new love - one that supports you and shares your interests. That is truly a blessing. I know that your daughter is indeed with you always and is celebrating along with you. Best wishes, Kathy

Lois- What a treasure you are! Congratulations as you celebrate this milestone. Your strength and inner beauty are so evident in your posts. Thank you for sharing your life with those of us on this board. You are an inspiration, Christina S

Lois, You are such a strong and beautiful woman. I am filled with joy for you as you celebrate your new life. I am sorry for the hardships you have endured, but I know that your daughter is so proud of you, as are all of us here at OH. I am inspired by your strength in the face of adversity and your steadfast support of everyone else. I wish you continued success in all aspects of life and your new found love, too! Congratulations! Hugs, Robin

Lois, Happy Surgiversary! You've come a long way baby! I was dissappointed that I couldn't meet you this weekend. I was really amazed by your Before and Afters. You are awesome! Big Hugs, Jane

Lois, wow what a year you have been. Congrats on your success and experiences. Courtney