Why do I feel sad?
Don't have any surgery unless you are completely comfortable with your decision. Pay attention to your feelings and thoroughly examine them. If I were you, I'd cancel my surgery.
A good book on this topic is The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker. He talks about irrational fear, rational fear, and how you tell the difference. Excellent book. I give his other book, Protecting the Gift, to expectant parents at baby showers. I think it should be required reading in 8th grade.
Going into any WLS without full knowledge of all the potential side effects is not wise. Have you examined ALL the various WLS out there? Each one is different, each one has it's own unique advantages and draw backs. No one but you can decide which one best suits your needs. Make sure you visit all the forums here, and pay attention to which ones have the most revisions and why.
A good book on this topic is The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker. He talks about irrational fear, rational fear, and how you tell the difference. Excellent book. I give his other book, Protecting the Gift, to expectant parents at baby showers. I think it should be required reading in 8th grade.
Going into any WLS without full knowledge of all the potential side effects is not wise. Have you examined ALL the various WLS out there? Each one is different, each one has it's own unique advantages and draw backs. No one but you can decide which one best suits your needs. Make sure you visit all the forums here, and pay attention to which ones have the most revisions and why.
I. am. not. a. doctor.
HW 250ish SW 219 CW 110 LW 100