Please Pray!
Well, where do I start.... Sorry if I ramble on.... Just have to get this off of my chest. Tueday morning, I was posting about how thankful I am for my husband... Tuesday night, he threw my head into a wall. I went to the ER yesterday because I noticed dried blood coming out of my right ear. They said that I was "ok." I hurt so bad that I can barely move. I may not have a concussion or broken bones... but I am NOT okay. I have been with this man for 6 years. I knew that we were having our problems, and he was unhappy, but I NEVER thought he could do something like that to me.
Now, here it is Thanksgiving... and I am here all alone. He took the kids to Thanksgiving with his family. (It was already planned and I was supposed to go.) My things that I am thankful for went from my husband being my backbone to I am thankful that I am alive. For those of you that are sitting there wondering if I am still with him, the answer is NO. He said that he would leave. (After all, I am the one that pays the bills here.) When I asked him when, he said in two weeks. That means I am off to my parents house until then. They are out of town for Thanksgiving, so I am just here living on the computer today trying to keep my sanity.
For those of you who have a family to celebrate Thanksgiving with.... Don't take it for granted... Let them know that you are thankful for them.
-Kim T
Now, here it is Thanksgiving... and I am here all alone. He took the kids to Thanksgiving with his family. (It was already planned and I was supposed to go.) My things that I am thankful for went from my husband being my backbone to I am thankful that I am alive. For those of you that are sitting there wondering if I am still with him, the answer is NO. He said that he would leave. (After all, I am the one that pays the bills here.) When I asked him when, he said in two weeks. That means I am off to my parents house until then. They are out of town for Thanksgiving, so I am just here living on the computer today trying to keep my sanity.
For those of you who have a family to celebrate Thanksgiving with.... Don't take it for granted... Let them know that you are thankful for them.
-Kim T
I don't know what to say except that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Try to take care of yourself during this time, especially since you are still on the mend from your surgery.
Laura
Laura
Laura in Texas
53 years old; 5'7" tall; HW: 339 (BMI=53); GW: 140 CW: 170 (BMI=27)
RNY: 09-17-08 Dr. Garth Davis
brachioplasty: 12-18-09 Dr. Wainwright; lbl/bl: 06-28-11 Dr. LoMonaco
"May your choices reflect your hopes and not your fears."
Kim,
Seriously.....my sister lives in Plano and you can go to her house to wait until your parents get back if you need too....
Please dont stay in harms way....if you need out today we can get you out today...
I will PM you my phone number and anytime you need it i want you to use it....if i lived closer you could come and stay with me....
I am so sorry this has happened to you.....its a terrible think to have to endure.....
Seriously.....my sister lives in Plano and you can go to her house to wait until your parents get back if you need too....
Please dont stay in harms way....if you need out today we can get you out today...
I will PM you my phone number and anytime you need it i want you to use it....if i lived closer you could come and stay with me....
I am so sorry this has happened to you.....its a terrible think to have to endure.....
Thank you very much, but I am going to my mother's house. She is out of town, so I will be there by myself... but I am still going. I am not staying here. I do not feel that I am in harms way (after all, abusers usually say how sorry that they are after they beat you), but I have no desire to be around him. My feelings for him were smashed when my head hit the wall. Yes, I am sad, but I have no desire to be with someone that doesn't love and respect me.
-Kim T
-Kim T
Kim, I'm so sorry - had I seen this I would have invited you to Thanksgiving lunch... It might have seemed strange, but trust me my family is odd enough to keep you entertained.
I'm so sorry!!! But, you stay strong and get yourself and the kids taken care of.
Get an attorney!
PM me or find me on facebook if you need to chat.
I'm so sorry!!! But, you stay strong and get yourself and the kids taken care of.
Get an attorney!
PM me or find me on facebook if you need to chat.
Lisa from Texas - Go Aggies Go!!!
Before/atWLS/Current
313/290/150
((((Kim))) I am so sorry to hear this. You are doing the right thing by leaving, if he does it once and you allow it to happen then it'll be easier for him to become angry again do it to again.
Praying for you during this time.
Hugs,
Praying for you during this time.
Hugs,
Proximal RNY Lap - 02/21/05
9 years committed ~ 100% EWL and Maintaining
www.dazzlinglashesandbeyond.com
kIM - I'm so sorry that you are going through this (((((((((((Huggss)))))))))))))) to you..............
know that we are care about you and kids and I'm hoping that things will settle down a bit...........he'll calm down and things will be okay....................and then maybe that may not be a good thing ?
((((((((((((((Hhuggsss))))))))))))))))))))
know that we are care about you and kids and I'm hoping that things will settle down a bit...........he'll calm down and things will be okay....................and then maybe that may not be a good thing ?
((((((((((((((Hhuggsss))))))))))))))))))))
- Pease check out Dr. Connie Stapleton's Website. A lot of good information on there for all WLS patients regardless of the surgery you chose. Good luck to all and I'm here for you if you want to send me an email. I'll answer it as soon as possible.
- Total Lost: 139 lbs
- Current Weight: 263
- As of 11-10-13 I have had weight gain. Not happy about that.
- RNY: 10-16-07 = 338: Highest weight: 350+ Lowest Weight: 199
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