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Vivian Prouty
on 11/3/09 9:02 pm - Fort Worth, TX

July....I am being very hard nosed but I don't think that they attended a meeting yesterday although they were talking about it. I am so angry at this femaie !!! She is NO LADY so I won't call her that either. What my son sees in her I will NEVER know. Maybe it is just what is between her legs~~OOps.....Sorry to have said that but that is what I am thinking. She is NOT pretty and is 4 inches taller than he is!!! UGH Oh well...that is HIS deal not mine but trust me. I have told her what will happen and she is easing closer to my front door. I have a feeling she won't know what hit her when I kick her out on her backside. She has NO idea how very close she is to that happening!!!!

Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian

GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CAN NOT CHANGE; COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS THAT I CAN; AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE !!!! THIS IS MY DAILY PRAYER.
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Phyllis M.
on 11/3/09 9:35 pm - Irving, TX

RNY on 10/16/07

Hey Viv - (((((((((((((((((hugggss))))))))))))

After reading all the posts here.................all I have to say is that I agree - stick to your guns...

You have to remember YOU. This situation is really bringing your down in an unhealthy way.....probably not helping your hubby either.................You need to let your hubby carry the burden too.............if she responds to him...............step back..............let him deal with things and you spend time on yourself..................

STAY STRONG - GET OUT FOR THOSE WALKS..........I HEAR EXCERCISE IS A GREAT STRESS RELIEVER...............

STICK TO YOUR RULES...............KICK HER OUT IF NECESSARY - If your son choses to follow here...................let it be.........it won't be long before they come knocking again........cuz they probably don't have anyone else's door to knock on.........................they have to realize that they need to be a little more tolerant of living under someone's else's house and rules...........they should be catering to you all........but then again - when drugs are involved........were involved.......who knows.........

LUV YOU !!

Pease check out Dr. Connie Stapleton's Website. A lot of good information on there for all WLS patients regardless of the surgery you chose. Good luck to all and I'm here for you if you want to send me an email. I'll answer it as soon as possible.
Total Lost: 139 lbs
Current Weight: 263
As of 11-10-13 I have had weight gain. Not happy about that.
RNY: 10-16-07 = 338: Highest weight: 350+ Lowest Weight: 199

Vivian Prouty
on 11/4/09 12:50 am - Fort Worth, TX

RNY on 11/22/05

Phyllis....the only thing is....I am the BAD guy when she talks to my hubby not her !!!! UGH Soon she will push me over the edge unless things improve and when she does.....Katie....bar the door !!!! When I get angry enough I am like a volcanio erupting !!!! I think she got a touch of it yesterday when she really pissed me off !!! But I CAN be the biggest "B" when I want to be but I choose not to be that way.....BUT if it comes to it.....so be it. Love you !!!

Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian

GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CAN NOT CHANGE; COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS THAT I CAN; AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE !!!! THIS IS MY DAILY PRAYER.
Vivian Prouty Obesity Help Support Group Coach "LOSE IT 4 LIFE"

Misty750342002
on 11/3/09 9:36 pm - Frisco, TX

VIV,

Hang in there we are behind you. Just remember tough love is the best thing for them. You are a good mother. And remember part of it is the adiction that is talking. Huggs

Vivian Prouty
on 11/4/09 12:51 am - Fort Worth, TX

RNY on 11/22/05

Thanks Karen.

Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian

GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CAN NOT CHANGE; COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS THAT I CAN; AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE !!!! THIS IS MY DAILY PRAYER.
Vivian Prouty Obesity Help Support Group Coach "LOSE IT 4 LIFE"

JodieBlonde
on 11/3/09 9:57 pm - Mesquite, TX

VSG on 07/09/08

Put her **** in some WalMart sacks, put her and her **** on the front porch, turn off the light, shut the door and say good-bye. If your son goes, he goes. You are killing yourself over something you actually have no control over.

Good luck, Vivian. Until YOU follow through with the threats (have you even told her this or do you just vent it here?) she's figured out the buttons to push and set you off. She's probably rather enjoying watching you because she doesn't believe you will show her the door.

Open it wide, show it to her and close it behind her. Then, hopefully you and your family can move on.

Vivian Prouty
on 11/4/09 12:55 am - Fort Worth, TX

RNY on 11/22/05

Thanks Jodie....trust me....She KNOWS !!!! I told her yesterday that I will NOT take much more and that I would NOT have a problem telling her to leave and if she doesn't calling the Police to remove her from my home. I love me ALOT more than I care about her druggie A$$ !!!! UGH Can you tell I have had it !! I am sure that SHE is the one that got my son so involved in all this. She needs someone to kick her in her butt and I am about to do it.

Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian

GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CAN NOT CHANGE; COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS THAT I CAN; AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE !!!! THIS IS MY DAILY PRAYER.
Vivian Prouty Obesity Help Support Group Coach "LOSE IT 4 LIFE"

JodieBlonde
on 11/4/09 1:21 am - Mesquite, TX

VSG on 07/09/08

On November 4, 2009 at 8:55 AM Pacific Time, Vivian Prouty wrote:

Thanks Jodie....trust me....She KNOWS !!!! I told her yesterday that I will NOT take much more and that I would NOT have a problem telling her to leave and if she doesn't calling the Police to remove her from my home. I love me ALOT more than I care about her druggie A$$ !!!! UGH Can you tell I have had it !! I am sure that SHE is the one that got my son so involved in all this. She needs someone to kick her in her butt and I am about to do it.

Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian

You will not take MUCH more? BS - don't take ANY more from her. Call the police and have her removed TODAY!! The longer she's there, the more she is just going to keep your home in turmoil.

cajungirl
on 11/3/09 11:01 pm

RNY on 02/21/05

Vivian, it's time to be strong and kick her ass out. She is NOT your daughter you don't need to put up with her crap. If your son leaves then he needs to get a set of ball also and own up to his responsibilities and who will be there for him; and that's YOU.

The girlfriend seems like a sneaky, ill-mannered brat that is abusing you and your hubby mentally and verbally. Get tough, it's time for her to go. If you allow her to stay then you are willing to accept her unacceptable behavior.

It's your choice now?

Proximal RNY Lap - 02/21/05

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MariPW
on 11/3/09 11:03 pm - Fredericksburg, TX

RNY on 07/15/08

I think I am kinda with Jodie on this one. There is NO excuse for her behavior, drugs or no drugs. There is also no reason that you should be putting your health and well-being in the toilet for her. I know that you love your son, but at some point you have to exhibit some "Tough Love" and kick the Lil B-witch to the curb. Your son will wise up sooner or later, but you can only spoon-feed him for so long. It seems to me that he is showing little or no respect for himself in sticking with this Witch-woman, and no respect at all for his parents for allowing her to remain in your household, abuse his mother and put up with her Sh*t. If your son isn't in a good 12-step program, he should be... I certainly hope that as he works through his addiction, he finds these steps and works on them.

Step 8 - Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all
Step 9 - Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others
Step 10 - Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it

Good Luck, Ms Vivian! Take carra YOU!!!
Love ya,
Mari

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