PRAYER NEEDED FOR ME PLEASE !!!

Vivian Prouty
on 11/3/09 1:36 pm - Fort Worth, TX

I am really stressed out because of the situation with my son and his GF not having a job....living with us and all the problems that all of this is bringing into my once peaceful home. It is peaceful no more !!! I had no idea what I was getting myself into. Please keep me in your prayers. I thought things were getting better till today. All hell broke loose earlier today and I am about to loose it !!! Please keep me in your prayers as I deal with my son's GF who ( if she doesn't straighten up and treat me better ) will be tossed to the streets. My son is treating me with respect but she is so mouthy and pouts when she doesn't get her way !!! She needs to just suck it up and act her age !!! Love you guys and thanks for all the prayers for us. You will NEVER know how much it means to me !!!

Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian

GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CAN NOT CHANGE; COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS THAT I CAN; AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE !!!! THIS IS MY DAILY PRAYER.
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Sean N.
on 11/3/09 2:17 pm - TX

RNY on 06/25/07

Will do Viv!!!!!

Sean 422/383/244
OH Certified Support Group Leader
Pasadena Support Group 2nd Monday at 6:30pm
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Vivian Prouty
on 11/3/09 8:04 pm - Fort Worth, TX

RNY on 11/22/05

Thanks so much Sean. You guys are my rock right now !!! Love all you guys !!!

Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian

GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CAN NOT CHANGE; COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS THAT I CAN; AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE !!!! THIS IS MY DAILY PRAYER.
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Laura in Texas
on 11/3/09 4:34 pm

RNY on 09/17/08

You are in my thoughts and prayers. Please take care of yourself during this time. Did you make a list of rules like you said you were going to do? Add "No mouthyness" to it and have a family meeting. And if she doesn't shape up, kick her to the curb!! Your son may leave with her, but that would be his choice. Be strong!! You can get through this!!

Laura

Laura in Texas

53 years old; 5'7" tall; HW: 339 (BMI=53); GW: 140 CW: 170 (BMI=27)

RNY: 09-17-08 Dr. Garth Davis

brachioplasty: 12-18-09 Dr. Wainwright; lbl/bl: 06-28-11 Dr. LoMonaco

"May your choices reflect your hopes and not your fears."

Vivian Prouty
on 11/3/09 8:10 pm - Fort Worth, TX

RNY on 11/22/05

Yes.....Laura. She did sign it too. I put in a phone call to her Mom but she didn't call me back. They went there and she came back with this terrible attitude. She had already started in on me earlier in the day and I said nothing to her. But last night I BLEW up at her. My husband told me to leave the room and he would handle things with her. My poor son just sat there. This woman is 31 yrs old and keeps reminding me of that and my son is almost 24. She is WAY too old for him but what am I to do about that. UGH Her demands are to be treated like a 31 yr old and to have a key to my home. I told her I would treat her like a adult and not a child when she acted like one and she would NEVER have a key to my home. I don't care if she likes it or not !!! I have too much at stake to lose giving them a key. And trust me....she better start treating me with respect or she will be sitting on the curb !!!

Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian

GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CAN NOT CHANGE; COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS THAT I CAN; AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE !!!! THIS IS MY DAILY PRAYER.
Vivian Prouty Obesity Help Support Group Coach "LOSE IT 4 LIFE"

annette1957
on 11/3/09 6:01 pm - Sherman, TX

RNY on 12/22/08

Viv-gosh girl I know exactly what you are going thru!!! Just remember your son is going to keep her around she will have to be a part of your life if you are gonna be close to him...I told you about my situation. Kicking her out and he chose to go to...Now she refuses to come around and he is mostly letting her call the shots. Honestly I wish I had tried to be more tolerant and long suffering...So think long and hard about the outcome but then there is only so much that you can take! I will be praying for you!!!
How are they doing on the rehab?
Good luck and God bless!

“If we don’t put our efforts into creating what we want, then we have to put our efforts into coping with what we get!

HW: 277/ CW: 170/ GW: 157 Exercise goal: 4x a week.

Vivian Prouty
on 11/3/09 8:16 pm - Fort Worth, TX

RNY on 11/22/05

Annette....not sure how anything is going. They are driving me nuts. Staying up till 3 or later with lights and TV on. Then getting up and wanting food and then her belittling me when he is not in the room and telling me that I am treating her as if she is 3. Well.....she doesn't act her age !!!! I am treating her the age she is acting. After all IMHO.....31 yr. olds shouldn't pout when they don't get their way !!! And I won't take a lot more of her being disrespectful to me !!! I am pretty much almost done. I was yelling at her last night because my nerves are shot. My son said nothing. His friends told me that she had him beat down in the way he acted. I can't believe the way he is acting. He has NEVER ever let anyone treat me this way. I told her that if she leaves....the cell phone stays cause I paid the bill for him !!! NOT her !!!! Thanks for the prayers....I need all I can get to get me through this !!!!

Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian

GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CAN NOT CHANGE; COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS THAT I CAN; AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE !!!! THIS IS MY DAILY PRAYER.
Vivian Prouty Obesity Help Support Group Coach "LOSE IT 4 LIFE"

Alissa A.
on 11/3/09 6:31 pm - Keller, TX

Sorry for the situation Viv- I am praying for a solution for all soon.

Vivian Prouty
on 11/3/09 8:17 pm - Fort Worth, TX

RNY on 11/22/05

Thanks Alissa !!!

Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian

GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CAN NOT CHANGE; COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS THAT I CAN; AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE !!!! THIS IS MY DAILY PRAYER.
Vivian Prouty Obesity Help Support Group Coach "LOSE IT 4 LIFE"

Lynne R.
on 11/3/09 7:19 pm - Houston, TX

RNY on 02/21/05

You may need to start a little Tough Love - if she can't follow the rules, toss her butt out!

Lynne

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