PRAYERS NEEDED FOR MY SON AND HIS GF TODAY !!!

annette1957
on 10/30/09 9:26 pm - Sherman, TX
Vivian, I am just now seeing this but I am sending prayers your way anyway! Hope the interviews went well! I have gone thru trying to help out grown kids!

Just a few months ago, our son and gf moved in with us and it did not go well!!! He had divorced his wife of 9 years with 2 kids; and moved in with her and then she talks him into quiting his good 70,000.00 a year job and going on the road selling cell phone accessories and sunglasses at flea markets and events because that is what her parents did all her life and her and her former hubby(or whatever he was) did. Of course we begged him not to do it but he did anyway and within 2 months lost practically everything he had including being 2 mos behind on child support . So then he tells us that he is leaving her and wants to start over and so we let him move in and then within days he reconciles with her and of course wants to move her in and did I mention that she has a baby that he thinks is his. WOW! I said a mouthful didn't I ? SO, anyway, they were here about 2 months and we ended up kicking them out and I will spare you those details but it was not pretty! Since then he has been keeping our grand babies away from us unless he needs help picking them up. SO, honey I feel your pain! I will keep you on my prayer list. Didn't really mean to say all that, but have I said how much I love this group?? The more I see and read and get  to know: I am so blessed to have my "OH family"! Hope everyone has a wonderful Saturday! It is supposed to be sunny in this part of Texas!
If we don’t put our efforts into creating what we want, then we have to put our efforts into coping with what we get!  

HW: 277/ CW: 170/ GW: 157 Exercise goal: 4x a week.
                
Vivian Prouty
on 10/30/09 11:33 pm - Fort Worth, TX
 Annette.....Hon you are family on the TMB.    I hear ya...one of my rules is No smoking in my house.   Got up to get a drink at 2:30 this AM....opened the door to the bedroom they are in and BINGO....she was smoking.   I hit the roof with her ( 2nd time I have caught her doing that there ) !!!  I am at my witts end.    Hon you have it worse than I do.   I won't tolerate alot more.   I may be fighting my hubby over this but tough !!!  He WILL get over it.   LOL    I am already getting pretty fed up with it all and they have been here less than 2 weeks.


Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian

GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CAN NOT CHANGE;   COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS THAT I CAN;  AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE !!!!    THIS IS MY DAILY PRAYER.
Vivian Prouty      Obesity Help Support Group Coach  "LOSE IT 4 LIFE"


 

annette1957
on 10/30/09 11:59 pm - Sherman, TX
Vivian, I know what you mean about these hubbies! Why is it that God really made us the strong ones? Why do we have to be the "enforcers"?? I don't really know except I knew he gave us more brains and inner strength-seems like. But then he also gave us a Mother's love and that is pretty special...anyway, let us know about the job situation. Love ya! Annette, too
If we don’t put our efforts into creating what we want, then we have to put our efforts into coping with what we get!  

HW: 277/ CW: 170/ GW: 157 Exercise goal: 4x a week.
                
Vivian Prouty
on 10/31/09 7:58 am - Fort Worth, TX
 I will post a update to the job situation if it changes any.    Glad to have you  be part of us Annette !!!''''


Hugs and blessings~~~ Vivian

GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CAN NOT CHANGE;   COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS THAT I CAN;  AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE !!!!    THIS IS MY DAILY PRAYER.
Vivian Prouty      Obesity Help Support Group Coach  "LOSE IT 4 LIFE"


 

Kim T.
on 11/1/09 7:41 am - Mesquite, TX
Wow Annette.... Sounds like you need our prayers too..... Consider yourself added to my prayer list.  Your son will come around...... Some of just have to learn the hard way how good our parents can be for us....

-Kim T
Laura in Texas
on 10/30/09 10:09 pm
Prayers for ALL of you, Vivian.  Did they get the jobs??

Laura

Laura in Texas

53 years old; 5'7" tall; HW: 339 (BMI=53); GW: 140 CW: 170 (BMI=27)

RNY: 09-17-08 Dr. Garth Davis

brachioplasty: 12-18-09 Dr. Wainwright; lbl/bl: 06-28-11 Dr. LoMonaco

"May your choices reflect your hopes and not your fears."

Vivian Prouty
on 10/30/09 11:28 pm - Fort Worth, TX
 Uncertain as now.    They applied at restaurants and were told that they would find out sometimes this week after references were checked.   I will let everyone know if they get a job.   Thanks Laura for asking.


Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian

GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CAN NOT CHANGE;   COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS THAT I CAN;  AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE !!!!    THIS IS MY DAILY PRAYER.
Vivian Prouty      Obesity Help Support Group Coach  "LOSE IT 4 LIFE"


 

Kim T.
on 11/1/09 7:42 am - Mesquite, TX
Prayers are going your way Vivian..... Glad to see that they are both heading foweard in their recovery.  Looking for a job is a big step for them.

-Kim T
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