Update on me

Hey TMB family.  I wanted to give you all an update on what's going on in my life.  I'm struggling through a very tough time and fighting the urge to hide and withdraw. Jeff and I found out a couple of weeks ago that I was pregnant.  Unfortunately it was ectopic so I'm going through the miscarriage right now.  I wasn't going to say anything but I know myself well enough to know if I don't reach out for my friends I'll crawl into a cave that's very hard to get out of.

Thank you for the prayers from the ones who knew or figured it out already.  I know God has plans for us and I know we'll get through this and try again.  I can put on a brave face most of the time, but every once in a while it all hits me and I break down. 

My trip to see my parents has been canceled and they will be coming here instead this weekend.  Feeling all sorts of guilt and sadness about that as well, as it's their 40th anniversary and all they wanted was for all of their kids to be together. 

Please say some prayers for me and Jeff as we move through and get on with life again.

Thanks

Debbi

love you honey! I know the folks arent hte least bit upset about 'having' to come here instead .  Take care of YOU!!!

Words are not enough - just sending huggggges. Take care of you. Gaye

Deb,
{{{{HUGZ}}}} So sorry you are going through this. You were right about sharing, it will keep you out of that dreaded cave! My thoughts and prayers are with you guys!

Hugz,
Gina L

I'm so very sorry Deb. I'm sending lots of hugs and prayers your way.

 Debbi......my heart breaks for you.   I am so very sorry to hear of this GREAT loss.   I have never lost a child but I went through years of crying each month when I didn't get pregnant.   So trust me.....I know somewhat how you feel.    I do know that God will give you the desire of your heart.   He did me....we adopted 2 sons and when I was older ( 37 ) I gave birth to a 3rd son...my 1st pregnancy.    God answers prayers in HIS timing but I know as a christian you already know this.   I will definately pray for you and Jeff and that soon God will allow you to have one very very special baby.   Look at it this way....that precious baby is in Jesus arms being loved by him now....what better place can they be???  Love ya and will keep you in my thoughts and prayers !!!!


Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian

Debbi,

I also know somewhat of what you are going through.  I had an ectopic pregnancy that ruptured.  I had to have emergency surgery and lost a tube.  With all of my other infertility problems, I thought after that I had no hope of a successful pregnancy.  One year after that I got pregnant and had a son, and three years after that I got pregnant and had a daughter.  If you need to "talk" feel free to pm me.  Hugs and prayers to you.  It is completely normal to grieve in any way you feel necessary, just please don't keep it in!

Julie

"An Angel in the book of life wrote down your baby's birth. And whispered as she closed the book "too beautiful for earth."

We're here for you no matter what, my friend. I love you and will keep you and your family in my continued prayers. I'm so glad mom and dad are coming.

Have been praying for you for days.  I lost one too and came to realize that is was God's plan.  If I hadn't, I wouldn't have had Carla and therefore my three precious grand daughters.  So, God knows what he's doing.  I know this is a tough time for you both.  Let your Momma spoil you while she's here.  There's nothing like a Mothers love...even when we are grown.  My prayer for you is that in God's perfect time, he will bless you both with a bundle of joy.  I know he will.  I will continue to pray for y'all.

Love you,
Carol

Awww, Debbi, I hate to hear this.

Like Gaye said, not alot of words here but prayers and {{{{HUGS}}}}