ITALIAN TRANSLATER NEEDED !!!!

I'm so sorry this has happen to you.

Thanks so much Shelly.

Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian

She's and some others are trying to find out about weight loss surgery.  You can go to Google and get it translated.  I don't think she means harm but just delete her as a friend if you can't communicate.  I've tried to talk to her but we have a hard time trying to understand each other.  I think what she is doing is trying to point out how great a job you have done but she has no idea what she's doing.  It's nothing to be upset about...just lack of communication.
hugs, Y

p.s. I just deleted Alberto but here's some of the translation from Sarah.  These are the things she said.  I think she's trying very hard to find out about WLS.

I was answering to you now in chat. ovisto your photos on the Internet site… compliment invideo you credimi would want to become like you: (but as you never have a scar on the belly? I write to you here thus you succeed translate better:) but the laparascopia still was not invented in 2001? but where you have made l' participation? in that be?
but to had the much pain with the open surgery? but in that be you have made l' participation? in California? in Mexico? but do not create you problems the scar when you go in beach in bikini? you do not have fear that takes to you in turn?

Y-maybe you can just tell her-in some nice way, of course, that it is not socially acceptable, by US standards, to "share" nekkid pics, without permission. We're just not that "out there" yet. I probably wouldn't care less, if they were MY pics...but nobody would want to see ME nekkid anyway...anywhere in the world..no doubt...but she needs to know she needs to ASK people first

I tried so hard to say the simplest of things so I think it is best to just "unfriend" her.  It takes 3 or 4 times trying to use the translation stuff to get something across.  I will try to send a message via Facebook and tell her to please stop posting pictures because she surely does not understand that posting that stuff is different in this country. 

And hey, stop saying that about yourself.  I'm sure you're as beautiful nekkid as anyone!  I love you sweetie.  I'm about to do the best italian email writing I can.
love, Y

Thanks Yvonne for explaining this to me about her.   But she did invade my privacy by posting those photos on FB.    I guess if I were not such a modest person it wouldn't have hit me like it did.    I was in a panic when I viewed those photos.   She had never tried to communicate with me before this AM after I had deleted her as a friend on FB.    You know me....I try to give everyone the benefit of a doubt....but that was crossing the line.     My husband said I should have NEVER posted them on OH.   BUT I wasn't naked !!!!  I had my underware on....but still the photos of me before PS was gross.....I just wanted to give other former MO people hope that with PS they could look normal or somewhat so anyway.    Tell her I am sorry but I really was embarrassed by seeing them there.   And she should NOT have touched my photos here on OH.    Thanks for all your do Yvonne.   Thanks also for the insite on her situation.   I don't wish ill of her.....just don't want a friend like that.


Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian

It's OK, what we have is total miscommunication. Things are very different in her culture and I'm sure she meant no harm but was more impressed with your progress.   I went to try to message her back and apparently she must have figured it out because her profile is gone when I try to click on it.  I'm so sorry it happened but again it was a total mix up.  You did a nice thing trying to help others.  Hopefully we'll have no more problems.
hugs, Y

Thanks Yvonne......I pray that she will get the answers that she is seeking for WLS.    But she does need to understand that we do things differently here in the US than in other countries.    Thanks also for reaching out to help them.   


Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian

I'm translating this page with google translate because my English and very poor, sorry ...
morning while I was opening I realized I was talking about me ...
I'm just looking for information for my mother, who soon has to make bariatric un'intervento, I have not done anything wrong with this and I will not center anything obran .. and do not know anything ...
If I want to have among my friends ok you can do the calmly unless you are not obliged to give me the friendship ...
Shame goodbye
people are really rude
hello from Alberto
http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1781163641&hiq=fabbro %2Calberto&ref=search

Alberto....we are NOT rude and trust me....if you "really" knew me....you would KNOW that I am probably one of the nicest people you will ever meet.   I am very helpful to everyone or at least try to be...but when Sarah went into my "PRIVATE"....that means just that....NOT TO BE SHARED  photos and posts them for whatever reason ALL over MY WALL of Facebook...that is crossing the line !!!!   Here in America we have Rights to Privacy !!!!   Also invasion of Privacy and when I marked those photos private...that is HOW I WANTED THEM TO STAY !!!   It took alot for me to post those to my profile in the first place.   I am a very "MODEST" person.    VERY MODEST !!!   I don't go around flashing people nor do I want everyone to see those pictures.   Sarah had NEVER ever emailed me or anything at all.    SO maybe I am shedding some light on why I got so upset here.    It is NOT that I don't want to be your friend.    I have no problem with that at all....it is JUST that your cultures are so much different than ours here in the USA !!!    I wish your Momma well....if she is the one having the WLS.    I will pray that everything will go well for her and her journey.    But when people  have things marked as PRIVATE and you have to be their friend to view things....then they DO have a reason for putting it private and out of RESPECT for that person.....you leave it there and that way.   As a result of the incident on FB.....I have now deleted those photos from my OH account.   In the past.....I have had SO many people PM me and tell me how very much they appreciated me posting those photos there....to give people who have been morbidly obese all their lives hope that one day with plastic surgery they too can look somewhat normal ( not perfect by any means but normal ).    Sarah spoiled that for everyone.    Yvonne that you have been communicating with knows me and knows what type of person that I am.    I am not mean nor out for revenge trust me....I would NEVER do that.    I am sorry that this happened.    I wish you and Sarah and your mother much luck.  


Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian