ITALIAN TRANSLATER NEEDED !!!!
For everyone who knows me personally knows that I am a extremely modest person. Someone on OH ( have no idea who ) that is on my friends list....went to Facebook and posted my pre plastic surgery photos. Now....I know that they are on my friends list...because those photos on my OH Account are set for "private" and only my friends can view them. Anyway this person going by the name of Sarah OBrien posted them on FB. I was horrified by that. I did ask her why. I got a email from her this AM but it is in Italian...which I do not know. I am posting it here in hopes that someone can translate it for me. I pray that it is a apology. I am STILL upset with opening my facebook and there they were!!! Thanks and hope you all have a wonderful day !!!
Hugs and blessings ~~ Vivian
Ok nu heb ik verbergen Vivian, sorry ik was niet van plan om je zo ...
De verberg ik nu, maar hoe moet ik doen als ik te verwijderen vrienden?
Bye Sarah
Hugs and blessings ~~ Vivian
Ok nu heb ik verbergen Vivian, sorry ik was niet van plan om je zo ...
De verberg ik nu, maar hoe moet ik doen als ik te verwijderen vrienden?
Bye Sarah
GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CAN NOT CHANGE; COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS THAT I CAN; AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE !!!! THIS IS MY DAILY PRAYER.
Vivian Prouty Obesity Help Support Group Coach "LOSE IT 4 LIFE"
If I'm correct she also did the exact same thing to another OH member on this site. When I got her FB request I denied her. People need to beware that they need to delete her as a friend if they have her on Facebook. Luckily Vivian I was unable to see your pictures that you said she posted. Maybe cuz I didn't have her as a friend? I'm so sorry this happened to you.
~Stephanie~
RNY revision from lapband 7/30/07...TT/BL 10/9/08 and at GOAL
Thanks Stephanie. This has REALLY shook me up that someone would do this to me. In fact I hated to do this....but went to my profile and deleted my pre PS photos and after. I am sorry but I don't want those photos displayed all over the internet. I just can't figure out HOW she got them since they were set as private "friends only" viewing. Oh well....water under the bridge now....but thanks so much for last night. I was totally beside myself....I went there to post about Meggie being in the hospital and was slapped in the face with those photos !!!! I would like to know what she said to me though. I got a email with what I posted in it this AM.
Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian
Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian
GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CAN NOT CHANGE; COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS THAT I CAN; AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE !!!! THIS IS MY DAILY PRAYER.
Vivian Prouty Obesity Help Support Group Coach "LOSE IT 4 LIFE"
Vivian,
I love to investigate so this is what I came up with in Dutch...
Now I conceal OK Vivian, sorry I was not planning to give you ... the road I now, but how can I explain to remove if I do friends?
Marti
BS 5/3/04
P/S(ADOMINIALPLASTY, HERNIA REPAIR) 5/24/06
P/S(BR/BL) 6/25/07
"LIVE, LAUGH, & LOVE"
P/S(ADOMINIALPLASTY, HERNIA REPAIR) 5/24/06
P/S(BR/BL) 6/25/07
"LIVE, LAUGH, & LOVE"
Thanks Marti......I guess that is kind of a apology. BUT still what she put on FB last night was unforgiveable IMHO !!! I was totally horrified as was many on her ( I am sure) that saw them. I guess I am just way too trusting of people. She did email me this today and then had the nerve to send another friend request on FB !! LOL Cold day in HELL when that will happen !!! LOL Thanks Marti. If she sends me anymore I will post it. SO glad you got on this AM.
Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian
Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian
GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CAN NOT CHANGE; COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS THAT I CAN; AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE !!!! THIS IS MY DAILY PRAYER.
Vivian Prouty Obesity Help Support Group Coach "LOSE IT 4 LIFE"
Not that I am defending her in any way - but from the previous incident that happened apparently she is communicating with Yvonne, who is using a translator to even be able to communicate with her, about WLS. Yvonne is trying to help her in some way.
Her posting pictures is not to be mean or spiteful, but she's trying to show someone the transformations people have made.
Now how she gets access to pics on OH is another mystery.
Vivian - you can contact Yvonne and she can give you a better idea of the background.
Her posting pictures is not to be mean or spiteful, but she's trying to show someone the transformations people have made.
Now how she gets access to pics on OH is another mystery.
Vivian - you can contact Yvonne and she can give you a better idea of the background.
Thanks Jodie.....I had NO idea. All I know was when I went to FB last night to post that Meggie was in the hospital I was so stunned to see those before WLS and PS photos of me on my wall. To me those were set as "private for my OH friends to view only". I had NEVER communicated with Sarah OBrein before. Now that I know the facts....I feel bad. I just don't want everyone to view them. In fact this AM I went to my OH Profile and deleted ALL the pre and post plastic surgery photos. I don' t ever want to see anything like that again. Not that I am ashamed of how I look....I wasn't naked after all....but it is embarrassing to me to have me in my underware splashed all over the internet for everyone to view. That was never my intentions at all.
Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian
Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian
GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CAN NOT CHANGE; COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS THAT I CAN; AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE !!!! THIS IS MY DAILY PRAYER.
Vivian Prouty Obesity Help Support Group Coach "LOSE IT 4 LIFE"
Vivian,
It sounds to me that if she has access to your OH pics, then she must be a friend on here as well. Unless OH is somehow allowing access. I would scan all your friends on here first and make sure that you don't have anyone you don't know.
She tried to friend me as well on Facebook. Even if she had several mutual friends, I denied her. I learned to not have anyone I just don't know on there. I almost emailed her first asking who she was, but didn't want to be rude. I actually got an email from someone on Facebook, who was WLS person that asked me why I was trying to be their friend. When I replied I didn't know them personally but we have mutual friends, I get a reply of 'well then why would we be friends.'. Tacky and rude, but it's whatever.
Just remember, if it's on her and on FB it is potentially available to the whole world.. and people can be ruthless. No matter who gave whom person to 'take' personal, private, pictures of someone for research or whatever, that is completely violating someone's personal life! And it's unbelievable that anyone would think it was okay.
You had commented on a post the other day that you didn't know why so many people are on FB more then here now. I think the main reason is that we are not censored at all and can speak what we feel; however, with that freedom, comes the risk of things getting out of control..
Anyway, I've taken this off on a whole nother direction. I love that you are not as aware of all the folks in the world that are manipulative and violate others. But unfortunately, they are out there and they can hurt you deeply.
So please review all your 'friends' on this site first and see if you can weed some of them out.
Take care and remember, we love you. And I didn't see anything on FB either.
It sounds to me that if she has access to your OH pics, then she must be a friend on here as well. Unless OH is somehow allowing access. I would scan all your friends on here first and make sure that you don't have anyone you don't know.
She tried to friend me as well on Facebook. Even if she had several mutual friends, I denied her. I learned to not have anyone I just don't know on there. I almost emailed her first asking who she was, but didn't want to be rude. I actually got an email from someone on Facebook, who was WLS person that asked me why I was trying to be their friend. When I replied I didn't know them personally but we have mutual friends, I get a reply of 'well then why would we be friends.'. Tacky and rude, but it's whatever.
Just remember, if it's on her and on FB it is potentially available to the whole world.. and people can be ruthless. No matter who gave whom person to 'take' personal, private, pictures of someone for research or whatever, that is completely violating someone's personal life! And it's unbelievable that anyone would think it was okay.
You had commented on a post the other day that you didn't know why so many people are on FB more then here now. I think the main reason is that we are not censored at all and can speak what we feel; however, with that freedom, comes the risk of things getting out of control..
Anyway, I've taken this off on a whole nother direction. I love that you are not as aware of all the folks in the world that are manipulative and violate others. But unfortunately, they are out there and they can hurt you deeply.
So please review all your 'friends' on this site first and see if you can weed some of them out.
Take care and remember, we love you. And I didn't see anything on FB either.
Becky
forgiveness is giving up the hope that the past could be any different
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