Friday is the day Mature question

 Well....I guess it does depend on how your relationship is prior to surgery and how strong it is and the bond with your spouse.    Mine has gone through MAJOR issues since mine.    He has become jealous, accusing me of doing things he KNOWS I would NEVER do,   has asked me numerious times if I want a divorce, various other things.....Now that being said....we ARE still married !!!  Have been for 32 yrs.   I told him to just GET OVER IT !!!!   LOL  I am the same as before WLS just in a smaller package with a smaller appetite.   You need to talk to your spouse or significant other and explain to them that as the weight comes off.....you WILL get noticed by the opposite sex and they may try to "hit" on you.     If that happens......then what you DO about it will affect your marriage on way or the other.   My marriage is the same as before WLS except I do NOT usually go to all you can eat buffets.    Good luck with your upcoming surgery !!!



Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian

The answers above are all spot on. 

My wife and I have been married 35 years.  She had WLS 3 years ago, me a year and a half.  We had a very good marriage before.  It is even better now.  As far as intimacy goes, I smile a lot these days.

I wish to thank everyone for their view points. I would like to think after 21 years it is strong but heck who knows. I have always been self confident and dear lord help us all if it increases. Comes with the job I guess. I really appreciate all of you very much.