VSG surgery next tuesday.. do I back out?????

I'm sorry to hear about your problems, but I am glad that you have such a supportive husband.  When you make your decision, don't sacrifice something you need in order to try to take care of others.  It's ok if you decide to wait because that is what you feel you should do, but know that you are worthy of having this surgery, and it is something that is important.  Money does come and go, and every year you live with the excess wieght is less quality of life and a shorter life over all.  It is a scary decision you have to make, and I will pray that you find the right decision for you.  It's ok to put yourself first when the situation calls for it, so if you decide to go ahead with the surgery, don't feel guilty.  I can  only say that I am so happy that I had my surgery, but everyone is in a different situation.  Nomatter what your decision, you are blessed to have such a supportive family.  Good Luck.