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Thank you so much... I am trying... really I am... my mom is so because I am hurt instead of mad....LOL they are trying everything to get me stomping but I am sure that will happen when I get the divorce decree... so I am waiting.... I dont know how long these things take but unless he has filed already it will be a while. You guys are FANTASTIC !!! You will NEVER know how much I have appreciated all your support.... and I will do my best to be here more for you all.... honestly... because I want to do what I can to help others as well... I have some irons in the fire so to speak.... my family is outraged so they are helping me with things that need to be done.. above all God has helped me not go crazy so far... but I am afriad the first time I see him again I will FREAK! Thanks again for all your support... keep it coming... I really do appreciate it!!!! Hugs Tina

The anger will come. Your hurt will eventually turn into anger and you will say why did I cry so long? We all have been there and the healing process can be slow but you have to get through this stage to get to the next one. Your family is doing great things for you!! One thing I have learned....family & friends are always there to help pick up the pieces. Be Strong!!! Keep Your Chin Up!!!! Tell All Weasels To Bite Your Behind! PS: He never puts more on us than we can bear. Did I spell bear in that context right??? You can file yourself and claim desertion and if he doesn't contest the divorce it can be done in 30 days. You need a lawyer. Don't wait on him. He will try to take any money that you may be entitled to in your disability. Start writing everything down that he said while it is fresh in your mind, it will help your attorney and your case. email me if you need anything... [email protected]