Back with a question (as usual!)

Hi everyone, I was gone for about a month (finishing final exams and then a three week trip abroad). I'm back now and getting ready for my pre-op testing on Thursday. I caught a terrible cold on the trip and was fairly worried they would need postpone my surgery. I went to the doctor this week and got some serious meds and antibiotics (shot!) so I am keeping my fingers crossed that it clears up. I'm getting pretty nervous about the whole thing. I've talked to a few people who tell me that it's normal to be nervous. I think at first I was afraid of complications. However, now I seem to be more afraid of life after the surgery. I know that I'm afraid of pain. I've never had surgery -- never even been in the hospital, so I am very worried about my level of tolerance. Really though -- I think I am more afraid of giving up my old best friend, food. I know this sounds crazy -- everyone, and I mean everyone has told me it is worth it, but I told my husband that I feel like giving up food is like cutting off my right arm. Tonight is my last night to eat "normally." My doctor wants me on a low carb diet the two weeks before surgery so that my liver will shrink (enlarged from diabetes meds). I really know that I have got to get control of my emotional eating habits. I think this issue and association with food in my head will be the battle of all battles for me. Has anyone seen a counselor for this? I've heard several people who see the same doctor in Nashville, but I can't remember the name. Any suggestions? Thanks! Marian

Hi Marian! Just wanted to say welcome back, missed u on the boards! Hope u had a great vacation and good luck on your upcoming surgery. I am sure u will do fine! Tammy PS -- I didn't know that a low carb diet would help to shrink an enlarged liver (learn something new everyday! lol). I have been on a low carb diet for the last 6 weeks and I feel so much better. I have more energy and I have lost approximately 20 lbs!

Hi Marian, welcome home. I hope the finals score is a good one. I just want to wish you all the best. I'm sure we'll see you on here before your surgery date. May God be with you thru out your journey. Love ya, Kathy

I've had several surgeries. No it's not always fun but what ever the problem was it was fixed.... Don't be scared.. I think back to some of the surgeries I have had and really can't remember a lot about how I felt and what I went thru. one more thing FOOD IS NOT YOUR FRIEND.... I think that once I lose the weight I will feel better and want to do fun things like I use to.. I want to find comfort in something other then food.... I have not been to any but I've heard that the support groups are really great...ask your doctor if there are any groups where you are.. Hang in there you'll make..