Regarding missing son

Thank you for you support and prayers. I'm sure if my son knew he would also appreciate them, but since he won't talk to anyone, and doesn't have internet service anymore, I can't tell him. The D-n-l and I don't get along on the best of times, and she forward all calls to her cell phone, so I can't talk to him. I have even been told to not come to Nashville this weekend for my grandsons 2 yr birthday. I was in the hospital last year and that has been held against me ever since. The stress of worrying about him, staying up just waiting to hear that he was ok, is not worth it anymore. I have just had it for the last time. I love my son and grandson, but when the parents are acting like jerks and telling me to not plan on coming to Nashville because I will not be allowed on the property and will be asked to leave all because of last year. They have major issues about what a parent or grandparent should do. I really need to vent. But the tears won't stop. I am sorry for this. He doesn't care that I worried about him and always will. But I can't take the stress not at this time in my life. They will be the death of me yet. I wasn't allowed at the hospital when my first grandchild was born, I'm not allowed to buy my grandson anything as it will be given away yet when I don't I am accused of not loving him. I know this, I certainly do not want them at the hospital when I have surgery. They will be barred. I mean this with all my heart, and my older son stands by my decision, that when I die, as long as he's married still to d-n-l, he will not be told until after the fact. He didn't seem to care about anyone else's feelings when he disappeared for 36 hours, and he doesn't seem to care that I worried about him, he can't bring himself to even just talk to me. Well, my Will is made out. It won't be changed until I see some changes from them regarding my grandson. Thanks for letting me vent. There is so much anger inside right now, I just want to start breaking things. And when that is done, start on their heads. Maybe I will just runover their feet with my power chair. That part sounds like fun. While they are massaging their toes, I'll and on their heads. Then I'll them with my lashing. They make me so , all they want to do is about my past mistakes. Like they are so perfect. Kathy 's y'all.

Kathy, I'm sorry about your problems. I hope that it all works out for you. Anne

Hi Kathy, I am so sorry that you had to go through all that with your son,and really sorry about your grandson.But you know what we do the best we can raising our chrildren and then if they do not turn the way we want them to it is not our fault b/c we have done all that we can.After they are grown up they are not going to listen to us or anyone elsa.So try to not feel so bad about yourself ok.The old saying is(they step on your toes when they are little and step on your heart when they are grown) this is so true.I will be thinking of you and praying that all turns out the way you want it to.Your friend Eva

Dear Kathy, What a heart breaking senario, I am so sorry you are having to go through all of this, hon you just take care of #1 (YOU) and turn the rest over to God, for holidays and birthdays, send a loving card. Don't worry if it gets read or returned to you, you will know in your heart you cared enough to send it. And they will know to, maybe one day they will grow up and realize what they are missing out on. I will be praying for you during this very difficult time. God Bless Ya,

Thanks y'all so much. I really do appreciate everyone of you. Apparently they got into it after he got home. He called my phone to say he just got arrested. figure they must have been really at it, for the police to come out and arrest my son. But he's an adult and too old to be spanked for his actions and if he and him wife want to fight about it all, that's their problem. Not mind. Oh well, I can't worry about them and their immature games. I feel sorry for them but they bring it all on themselves. Thank you again for you kind words. Kathy