Rough day for me

I'm not sure how many of you remember about all the drama and BS that went on with me and my youngest son during the holidays. There was a huge mis-understanding and alot of ugly things were said on his and his girlfriend's part. He basically told me to stay out of his life and to forget about him. Well the last time I talked to him was on 12/23, I have not heard a word, I don't know if he is ok, I don't know if the baby is doing ok, I don't know anything. They will not take our phone calls or nothing. Well today is his birthday and I am beside myself. I did send him a card with a letter in it. I don't know if he got it or not. The girlfriend is a big part of this so I am not sure if she would even let him know that he got something from me. I know that my mom has also sent him a card and a cap that she had gotten him for Christmas, not sure if he got that or not. I am just having a hard time today. I have always done something for him on his birthday and I hurting so bad today. But I have done all that I can do, and I guess the rest is up to him. Thanks for letting me vent.

Cheryl

Cheryl - you and Phil are certainly in my thoughts and prayers today. It's so hard when there is division within a family, but God can heal all wounds. Let's start praying for Him to take out the girlfriend!!

Thanks for the kind words.

Cheryl

Family is so important, yet it causes so much pain when things go wrong.  I am sorry to hear about your frustration and worry.  Hopefully one day very soon he will come to his senses and call or visit.  Girlfriends come and go, but mothers are forever!  

I hear you Melinda, I just wish he could hear you. He will need is 1st family one day and yes momma will be there for him as always.

Thanks,
Cheryl

I will definiately be praying for you.  My mother and brother haven't spoken in about 6 months.  I know what it is doing to my mom.  Try to rest in the Lord--He knows your sorrow.

Thanks Erika, I know that I am not the only one that is going thru something like this. I hope your mother and brother gets back to talking soon.

Cheryl

Cheryl---I am so sorry for the problems you are having w/your son....I hope he comes around & realizes that girlfriends will come & go, but he only has one mom.  Best wishes, Micheala.

Thanks a bunch Micheala and you are right about the girlfriends coming and going. We kinda went thru the same thing with his last girlfriend and baby. We don't get to see her either, but I do have contact with the mom, well some what. We do send packages to her for holidays and birthdays to Florida for her, but we don't get to see pictures of her either. She will be 5 this year. It just hurts that I am not allowed to really be in either of their lives.

Cheryl

Cheryl,

You, Phil and your son will be in my thoughts and prayers, it is sad to see how all of us have been affected in one way or another by parts of the family thinking they don't need family anymore.   For our family, it is my sister who has is not speaking to us, taking with her my parent's only great-grand son.

Only God knows what the cause or the fix is, and we have to rely on him to give us strength and patience.

May God Bless each of us who struggle with these issues of lost family!

Amy