Jim's funeral arrangements

I'm posting this not because I expect any one to attend the service but its just my way of letting all of you know who my beloved husband was and how much he loved his family.  I will never be able to tell you have much all your postings have meant to me and my family.  We are still in shock and keep thinking he will walk in the door any minute.  As broken hearted as I am I also have so much to be thankful for.  Jim died as he wanted, quick.  He never wanted to be a burden to anyone.  We were able to donate a lot of Jim's body to help others in need.  Jim would have loved that.  I know without a doubt that Jim is in heaven today and that one day I will see him again.  I have the most wonderful family and friends who have wrapped their arms around me and held me up these last 24 hours.  Truly God's angels have been at work through all of you.


Below is the information for Jim's service:  

DOUTHIT, JAMES “Jim” – Age 60 died suddenly Friday, October 10, 2008.  Survived by his beloved wife of 31 years, Barbara Allen Douthit, daughter Amy (David) Elmore, son Sam and loyal 4 legged companion, Bailey.  “Poppy” is also survived by his granddaughters, Ashley, Tiffany and Shelby.  His sister Janice (Finley) Reed also survives.  His father and mother Smith and Evelynne Douthit preceded him in death.

 

Jim retired from the TN Dept of Financial Institutions where he worked for 30 years.  He was also a U S Veteran serving in Germany.  He was an avid crappie fisherman and a master craftsman.  His family and his dog were his whole world and he cared for them as if they were precious jewels.

 

He was a member of Hermitage Church of the Nazarene where visitation will be held Saturday, October 18 from 9:30 am until time of service.  The service will begin at 11:30 am.  The service will be conducted by Pastor Howard Plummer.

 

In lieu of flowers please make donations in Jim’s memory to Hermitage Church of the Nazarene Benevolence Fund, P O Box 111, Hermitage TN   37076.

 

 

Please keep us in your prayers.  This is a very hard time for us.  I so appreciate all your calls and e-mails.  Please forgive me for not taking your calls, but I just needed to be quiet some today.

Barbara,
Thank you for posting the information.  Again, I am so sorry.  I offer you my sincere condolences.  I know this is small help now, but Jim's donations will be a comfort in the future.  My son was a donor and was able to help over 37 people immediately.  And, I just received a bone transplant that I am etenally grateful for. Thank you for doing that.  Please remember that you are in my prayers.
Marilyn

If Tears Could Build A Stairway

 

If tears could build a stairway
And memories were a lane
We would walk right up to Heaven
And bring you back again.

 

No farewell words were spoken
No time to say goodbye,
You were gone before we knew it
And only God knows why.

 

Our hearts still ache in sadness
And secret tears still flow,
What it meant to lose you
No on will ever know.

 

But know we know you want us
To mourn for you no more,
To remember all the happy times
Life still has much in store.

 

Since you’ll never be forgotten
We pledge to you today,
A hallowed place within our hearts
Is where you’ll always stay.

 

Author Unknown

 

Please know that you are very much in our prayers. Thank you for taking the time and effort to let us all know a bit more about your wonderful husband. For you to think of others during your time of grief is surely a testimony to the love you shared.

Thank you too for giving us the opportunity to participate in his final farewell. I know several are planning on attending.

If you need anything during the coming weeks and months please let us know. We are always here for you!

Please know that we are here for you hon. As well as our love and prayers. God Bless you and your family during this time. If you need anything please let us know. Love ya hon Barb & Brian

Love you Barbara..and you know I loved Jim.  My prayers are with you.

Barbara

Thank you for posting the arrangements.  I am sure you have so much to do and have a lot on your mind. I don't know what to say except that I am so sorry to hear about Jim's death.  From what you shared with us on the board, he was very supportive of you and both of you were so much in love with one another.  Please know you are in my prayers. 

Baboo,  So sorry to hear of your husband's sudden death.  I haven't had a lot of time lately to read much, and missed your post.  My prayers are with you and your family this weekend and upcoming week.   Look to Him for guidance during your grief.
God Bless,
Sherry

Baboo I haven't been around as much and I'm so sorry for what you and your family are going through. I will be praying for y'all. Take care of yourself. ((Hugs))

I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
darlene

Barbara,
I heard about your loss on Saturday at Lunch Bunch.  I can't tell you how sorry I am.  I know your loss is huge and there no words any of us can offer to close the hole in your heart right now.  So, cling to your memories, cling to the love the two of you shared, spend time with your family, but most importantly spend time with the One who is in control.  He will help you along the road in the days, weeks, and months ahead.  I know it is beyond your and your family's comprehension right now as to why this happened, but have faith that God has a plan and a purpose.  I lost my father very unexpectedly last year and although the relationship between a father and daugher is totally different than that between a husband and wife, I have watched my mother over the last year, and I can honestly say I understand what you are going through and what you are experiencing.  Please know that you are in my prayers along with your family and if there is anything you need or anything I can do just let me know.

One of the most important things you have to do right now is be sure to take care of yourself - you know Jim would have wanted you to do that.

Blessings to you and your family,
Wendy