To experienced grief counselors or grieving parents...

Truly Trina
on 8/26/08 4:45 am - Nashville, TN
I was so blessed this weekend to have a chance meeting with a lady that lost her grown son a couple of months ago...  This was her only child.... She is hurting so bad...   I asked her if she was attending any grief counseling meetings and she told me no....    

  I want to take her and attend some support meetings with her..  She said she would be happy to go to some meetings with me...   Her son died in October....   Can someone please help on this issue.   I am out of my realm here...      I can talk Nutrition, WLS,  Depression,  all kinds of stuff but the death of a child is way out of my element...... But I promised her I would help her.....   And I am going to help her if it hair lips the Governor...   I need something in the Nashville area....   Thanks guys......

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SCOTT O.
on 8/26/08 5:27 am, edited 8/26/08 5:27 am - Nashville, TN
Trina,  

You might try the following. I have heard nothing about any of these programs, but it is a start. Good Luck!  

Skyline Medical Center’s Pastoral Care Department : 342-1919  

First Presbyterian Church Nashville: 383-1815
  

Bereavement Group: Meets 5:30-7 p.m. Tuesdays, St. Thomas Hospital, seventh floor, 4220 Harding Road. 222-2074.  

Courage for a New Day: Ongoing grief-recovery program offers seminars and support groups for people grieving for a loved one; meets at various times and funeral homes. Free. 383-4778  

Grief support group: Free meeting at 7:30 p.m. every third Thursday, West Harpeth Funeral Home, 6962 Charlotte Pike. 646-9292 or 352-9400.
  

Alive Hospice Grief Support Services: Edith Crumb 963-4732    
Truly Trina
on 8/28/08 2:13 pm - Nashville, TN
Scott,



This is great information.  Thanks for sharing.  I appreciate it very much.

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Nsg4Him
on 8/26/08 12:24 pm - Sevierville, TN
Trina,
I think it is wonderful that you are willing to go with your friend.  When Matt died, I had great support...for a while.  Then it kind of fell away.  Usually at about 6 months after the loss, the numbness wears off and the real pain begins.  I have a list of books that might also be of use.  I will get them together and PM you.  Also check to see if there is a Compassionate Friends group in Nashville.  It is a specific support group for people who have lost a child, adult or not.  I have been where your friend is, and I am thanking God you are there for her.

Speaking of loss, my husband's work partner lost his son in a freak truck accident on Saturday outside of Tucson, AZ.  They are from Morristown, TN.  It of course has been horrific for this family and brought back a lot of feelings for my husband.  Coincidentally, their son's name was Matthew as well.  So, folks, I would ask for prayers for this family this week as NTSB investigates and then for the memorial service on Friday and for some sort of comfort for this grieving family.

Marilyn


Marilyn
                      Smoky Mountain Obesity and WLS Support Group 
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Truly Trina
on 8/28/08 2:18 pm - Nashville, TN
Hi Marilyn,

Thanks for the information and encouragement.  You know I really hesitated to say anything about this at first because I new about your son and I did not want to stir up any bad feelings..  But I have heard that it is good to talk about it...  Is that right? 



I just felt so bad because she said she had no one to talk to so I just thought if I could find her a group and go with her once or twice then she would be more comfortable and make some new friends.  Friends that have things in common with her.....

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fbsummers
on 8/26/08 11:53 pm
Trina:

My daughter goes to a grief counselor.  We found her through our mental health insurance provider.  We use Peggy Beasley in Murfreesboro.  I feel sure that if she has mental health insurance they can help her find someone in her area.

Good luck.  This is a difficult process to go through.
Freddie
  Before WLS              
  
Before......   Surgery......  Post-op.....
Truly Trina
on 8/28/08 2:20 pm - Nashville, TN
You know Freddie,



I had not thought about that.  That is a good idea.  I will ask her if she has that type of insurance.  At least it is worth a try.  Thanks for the info...



Trina

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Barbara D.
on 8/27/08 6:23 am - Mt. Juliet, TN
Trina,

I will PM you with the home phone number of the couple who are in charge of the Parents Who Have Lost Children's organization.  They lost their son when he was a small child years ago, but this group is for parents who have lost chidreln of all ages whether they were young at the time of their death or grown adults.

B
Truly Trina
on 8/28/08 2:25 pm - Nashville, TN
Hey sweet Barbara,



I got that info you sent...  Thank you so much...  You know after reading the responses to this post it is amazing the resources out there.... That is so wonderful....  I am now equiped to help find a good place for her......   Thanks for caring.          Trina

   Trinafat05-19-06-1.jpg 100 x 75 picture by trina_davis_photoTrinaandBobbieJuly2008-1-2-1-1.jpg 63 x 100 picture by trina_davis_photo*Member of Student Dietetics*  *Certified support group leader Obesity Help*  Patient Rep support group moderator Vanderbilt Center Surgical Weight Loss
Start weight 277    Reached my goal weight 115


 



 

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