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Topic: Notice: Terms of Service
Some of you by now might have noticed the new set of Terms of Service when you post. We have wrote these to be more clear on the ones we had prior. You might see there are some that have been taken out and new ones. You will also notice that when you now submit a post that all posts say "I accept". This is nothing new as the terms of service were always something you are accepting when you submit a post, but we wanted everyone to be clear on this. The website is solely designed to help those in need of weight loss support. As with most site rules are put into place to help the members. Our primary objective is for support, education, not moderation. We value all member opinions, but please when posting keep these in consideration.
Notice: By pressing the button below to post your message, you are accepting the Terms of Service below. You and you alone are responsible and liable for all posts that you make. Obesityhelp, Inc. accepts no responsibility for your post and will remove posts that violate these rules. Obesityhelp staff has the sole discretion to remove posts without warning or explanation when, in their judgment, the rules have been violated or the posts are not in keeping with the primary objective of this site to provide help and assistance to those who need it because of their struggle with obesity.
Terms Of Service
Our staff will have sole discretion to remove any messages deemed inappropriate by them, without warning or explanation when the following types of postings occur:
*Anything that is harassing, threatening, embarrassing or that is causing distress or discomfort to another site member.
*Copyrighted Material
*Political or Religious debates
*Impersonating any person, including, but not limited to an Obesityhelp, Inc. staff member or site host.
*Messages that negatively affects other members or is deemed unsupportive
*Profanity
*Personal attacks or attacks upon beliefs (including public figures)
*Unsolicited advertising or other form of solicitation (including but not limited to monetary donations, selling, trading or borrowing for anything of value, including asking for money). See Event Exception below.
*Private information (postal addresses, phone numbers, etc) that you do not have legal authority to make public. You can post your own information (but recognize that this is a serious risk and ObesityHelp STRONGLY recommends against such public postings) but you must present proof to member services that you have Power of Attorney for the person or organization you are posting for.
*Inappropriate usernames (one that is vulgar, offensive etc).
*Any information, data, text, files, links, software, communication or other materials that Obesityhelp, Inc. considers to be unlawful, harmful, destructive, threatening, abusive, harassing, defamatory, vulgar, obscene, hateful, or racially, ethnically or otherwise objectionable.
*Material that intentionally or unintentionally violates any applicable local, state, national or international law or regulation, or any terms, conditions or rules set forth by Obesityhelp, Inc., while using Obesityhelp, Inc. Message boards
*Anything that is sexually objectionable or explicit.
Event Exception ObesityHelp recognizes that there are cases where sponsored events deserve and require our support, and, in some cases, individual members may be sponsors to specific assistance from other members. In order to post under this exception, one of two things must be true:
The event must be sponsored by a nationally recognized organization such as the American Diabetes Association (Walk-a-thons, bike rides, and other such events), or other organization that can be verified by the ObesityHelp moderation staff. Bringing these events to members notice as a public service and providing links to the supporting web sites is specifically authorized.
For an event not sponsored by a national organization or for an individual support such as to sponsor a member in a bike ride or for a local member event, these may be posted only when approved by ObesityHelp Member Services and they contain the following disclaimer:
NOTE: This event is locally sponsored and is neither sanctioned by nor supported by ObesityHelp Inc. ObesityHelp allows this post for member information only and has not confirmed the event or the sponsors of the event.
Civility These are open boards available to all members and we expect that members will maintain a degree of civility in their discussions. At Obesityhelp, Inc's sole discretion, individuals may be moderated or banned when it is deemed that they are not acting in accordance with the spirit or purpose of these boards. Even behavior which is not directly a violation, but which provokes or contributes to such actions may be considered as grounds for banning the member involved.
Adult Discussions Recognizing that adults may wish to discuss matters which are either sexually explicit or objectionable to many of our members, we have created an adults only forum, the "Sex Before and After WLS forum" for this discussion. Adults who wish to engage in these discussions may go to the following URL:
http://www.obesityhelp.com/morbidobesity/amosforums/sex_before_and_after_wls/
Advertising and Selling Members wishing to sell or advertise products may contact our sales office for information about advertising on our site through email at [email protected].
Public Information Members may discuss publicly available information but will be responsible for proving that it is in fact in the public domain if challenged. Proof of a release to post in writing will need to be submitted or the posting will be removed. Posting private information related to any person living or dead including addresses, phone numbers, or other personal details will not be allowed.
Bans or Moderation of Posts Bans are private matters between Obesityhelp, Inc. and person banned and will not be discussed publicly or through third parties. It is not acceptable to return to the boards under another username. If you do, your ban time may be extended. Repeat offenders may be reported to their ISP and/or banned permanently from this site.
Medical Advice Disclaimer Information contained in this web site is intended to provide an understanding and knowledge of health care topics by Obesityhelp, Inc. The information should never be used in place of advice from your physician or other health care provider. If you think you may have a medical emergency, call 911 and/or contact your doctor immediately. You should never disregard medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read here.
If you have any questions, or to report abuse on the site, please contact Member Services via email at [email protected].
Terms And Conditions: General Statement
Please read this agreement carefully before accessing or using the Web Site. By accessing or using the Web Site, you expressly agree to be bound by the terms and conditions set forth herein and the disclaimer set forth above. If you are not willing to be bound by these terms and conditions and disclaimer, you may not access or use the service. Obesityhelp, Inc. may modify this agreement at any time, and such modifications shall be effective immediately upon posting of the modified agreement. You agree to review the agreement periodically to be aware of such modifications and your continued access or use of the services shall be deemed your conclusive acceptance of the modified agreement.
Harassment of any type or kind, including via chat, including, but not limited to obscene, offensive, or abusive by obscene or abusive language, is forbidden. You may not upload to, distribute, or otherwise publish through the Web Site any content which is libelous, defamatory, obscene, threatening, illegal, or otherwise objectionable, as determined solely by Obesityhelp, Inc. which may constitute or encourage a criminal offense. You may not upload commercial content on the Web Site or solicit others to join or become members of any other commercial online service or other organization.
The entire content of Obesityhelp, Inc. is copyrighted collective work under the United States and copyright laws. Obesityhelp, Inc holds the copyright. You may display and, subject to any expressly stated restrictions or limitations relating to specific material, download portions of the material from the different areas of the Web Site solely for your own non-commercial use. Any redistribution, retransmission, or publication of any material is strictly prohibited without the express written consent of Obesityhelp, Inc.
Upon registration, you may opt-in to receive notifications of new Web site features, upcoming chat events and other news. Separately, you may opt-in to receive our e-mails, or from our sponsors. If you do not request any of these e-mail notices, none will be sent to you.
Obesityhelp, Inc. cannot review all communications and materials posted on the service. We are not responsible for the content of these communications and materials. You acknowledge that by providing you with the ability to distribute your content on the Web Site, Obesityhelp, Inc is acting as a passive conduit for distribution and does not undertake any obligation or liability, relating to or from any contents or activities on the Web Site, including the chat room. All messages, advice, opinions or other information contained on the Web Site should not be construed as professional advice, instruction or condoned by Obesityhelp, Inc.
You agree to indemnify, defend, and hold harmless Obesityhelp, Inc., directors, employees, and vendors from and against all losses, expenses, damages and costs, including reasonable attorneys' fees, resulting from any violation of this Agreement or any activity related to your account or any other person accessing the Web Site using your account.
Thanks,
Obesityhelp Staff
Notice: By pressing the button below to post your message, you are accepting the Terms of Service below. You and you alone are responsible and liable for all posts that you make. Obesityhelp, Inc. accepts no responsibility for your post and will remove posts that violate these rules. Obesityhelp staff has the sole discretion to remove posts without warning or explanation when, in their judgment, the rules have been violated or the posts are not in keeping with the primary objective of this site to provide help and assistance to those who need it because of their struggle with obesity.
Terms Of Service
Our staff will have sole discretion to remove any messages deemed inappropriate by them, without warning or explanation when the following types of postings occur:
*Anything that is harassing, threatening, embarrassing or that is causing distress or discomfort to another site member.
*Copyrighted Material
*Political or Religious debates
*Impersonating any person, including, but not limited to an Obesityhelp, Inc. staff member or site host.
*Messages that negatively affects other members or is deemed unsupportive
*Profanity
*Personal attacks or attacks upon beliefs (including public figures)
*Unsolicited advertising or other form of solicitation (including but not limited to monetary donations, selling, trading or borrowing for anything of value, including asking for money). See Event Exception below.
*Private information (postal addresses, phone numbers, etc) that you do not have legal authority to make public. You can post your own information (but recognize that this is a serious risk and ObesityHelp STRONGLY recommends against such public postings) but you must present proof to member services that you have Power of Attorney for the person or organization you are posting for.
*Inappropriate usernames (one that is vulgar, offensive etc).
*Any information, data, text, files, links, software, communication or other materials that Obesityhelp, Inc. considers to be unlawful, harmful, destructive, threatening, abusive, harassing, defamatory, vulgar, obscene, hateful, or racially, ethnically or otherwise objectionable.
*Material that intentionally or unintentionally violates any applicable local, state, national or international law or regulation, or any terms, conditions or rules set forth by Obesityhelp, Inc., while using Obesityhelp, Inc. Message boards
*Anything that is sexually objectionable or explicit.
Event Exception ObesityHelp recognizes that there are cases where sponsored events deserve and require our support, and, in some cases, individual members may be sponsors to specific assistance from other members. In order to post under this exception, one of two things must be true:
The event must be sponsored by a nationally recognized organization such as the American Diabetes Association (Walk-a-thons, bike rides, and other such events), or other organization that can be verified by the ObesityHelp moderation staff. Bringing these events to members notice as a public service and providing links to the supporting web sites is specifically authorized.
For an event not sponsored by a national organization or for an individual support such as to sponsor a member in a bike ride or for a local member event, these may be posted only when approved by ObesityHelp Member Services and they contain the following disclaimer:
NOTE: This event is locally sponsored and is neither sanctioned by nor supported by ObesityHelp Inc. ObesityHelp allows this post for member information only and has not confirmed the event or the sponsors of the event.
Civility These are open boards available to all members and we expect that members will maintain a degree of civility in their discussions. At Obesityhelp, Inc's sole discretion, individuals may be moderated or banned when it is deemed that they are not acting in accordance with the spirit or purpose of these boards. Even behavior which is not directly a violation, but which provokes or contributes to such actions may be considered as grounds for banning the member involved.
Adult Discussions Recognizing that adults may wish to discuss matters which are either sexually explicit or objectionable to many of our members, we have created an adults only forum, the "Sex Before and After WLS forum" for this discussion. Adults who wish to engage in these discussions may go to the following URL:
http://www.obesityhelp.com/morbidobesity/amosforums/sex_before_and_after_wls/
Advertising and Selling Members wishing to sell or advertise products may contact our sales office for information about advertising on our site through email at [email protected].
Public Information Members may discuss publicly available information but will be responsible for proving that it is in fact in the public domain if challenged. Proof of a release to post in writing will need to be submitted or the posting will be removed. Posting private information related to any person living or dead including addresses, phone numbers, or other personal details will not be allowed.
Bans or Moderation of Posts Bans are private matters between Obesityhelp, Inc. and person banned and will not be discussed publicly or through third parties. It is not acceptable to return to the boards under another username. If you do, your ban time may be extended. Repeat offenders may be reported to their ISP and/or banned permanently from this site.
Medical Advice Disclaimer Information contained in this web site is intended to provide an understanding and knowledge of health care topics by Obesityhelp, Inc. The information should never be used in place of advice from your physician or other health care provider. If you think you may have a medical emergency, call 911 and/or contact your doctor immediately. You should never disregard medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read here.
If you have any questions, or to report abuse on the site, please contact Member Services via email at [email protected].
Terms And Conditions: General Statement
Please read this agreement carefully before accessing or using the Web Site. By accessing or using the Web Site, you expressly agree to be bound by the terms and conditions set forth herein and the disclaimer set forth above. If you are not willing to be bound by these terms and conditions and disclaimer, you may not access or use the service. Obesityhelp, Inc. may modify this agreement at any time, and such modifications shall be effective immediately upon posting of the modified agreement. You agree to review the agreement periodically to be aware of such modifications and your continued access or use of the services shall be deemed your conclusive acceptance of the modified agreement.
Harassment of any type or kind, including via chat, including, but not limited to obscene, offensive, or abusive by obscene or abusive language, is forbidden. You may not upload to, distribute, or otherwise publish through the Web Site any content which is libelous, defamatory, obscene, threatening, illegal, or otherwise objectionable, as determined solely by Obesityhelp, Inc. which may constitute or encourage a criminal offense. You may not upload commercial content on the Web Site or solicit others to join or become members of any other commercial online service or other organization.
The entire content of Obesityhelp, Inc. is copyrighted collective work under the United States and copyright laws. Obesityhelp, Inc holds the copyright. You may display and, subject to any expressly stated restrictions or limitations relating to specific material, download portions of the material from the different areas of the Web Site solely for your own non-commercial use. Any redistribution, retransmission, or publication of any material is strictly prohibited without the express written consent of Obesityhelp, Inc.
Upon registration, you may opt-in to receive notifications of new Web site features, upcoming chat events and other news. Separately, you may opt-in to receive our e-mails, or from our sponsors. If you do not request any of these e-mail notices, none will be sent to you.
Obesityhelp, Inc. cannot review all communications and materials posted on the service. We are not responsible for the content of these communications and materials. You acknowledge that by providing you with the ability to distribute your content on the Web Site, Obesityhelp, Inc is acting as a passive conduit for distribution and does not undertake any obligation or liability, relating to or from any contents or activities on the Web Site, including the chat room. All messages, advice, opinions or other information contained on the Web Site should not be construed as professional advice, instruction or condoned by Obesityhelp, Inc.
You agree to indemnify, defend, and hold harmless Obesityhelp, Inc., directors, employees, and vendors from and against all losses, expenses, damages and costs, including reasonable attorneys' fees, resulting from any violation of this Agreement or any activity related to your account or any other person accessing the Web Site using your account.
Thanks,
Obesityhelp Staff
(deactivated member)
on 6/20/05 6:37 am - NJ
on 6/20/05 6:37 am - NJ
Topic: Important Announcement for All Members !!!
Did you know that OH is forming fully trained, Support Group Chapters in every state? I'm Marine Jourdan, I'm a professional Life Coach and OH Member, Charter Member Chapter Leader and friend to all of you. I had my RNY WLS on October 20th 2003 and I am enjoying a much healthier life because of it. I am inviting you to begin signing up for my Support Group that will begin in NEW YORK CITY this Fall. We will have an ONLINE Support Site on Yahoo Groups and it's address is
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/NYNJHWSN
Click to join NYNJHWSN
You are all welcome to be here to get first rate education. Tell you doctors, dieticians, family, friends and other WLS / OH family about it. OH's Dr. Monica Ganz is launching the Chapter Leaders entity and we are actively looking for all support group leaders to apply to be an OH Certified Support Group Chapter. Please ask me how to get your certification at
[email protected]
I will be happy to refer you and get all of the qualified groups and leaders on the OH Chapter Leader program. A very important thing for the world of WLS, it's patient's and professionals is that we are all educated well and that we all have the same, correct information. Have you ever experienced conflicting opinions or even getting advice from a professional or other WLS friend that was not the best for you. You have to remember that every patient is at a different stage and not all methods are for all people. As a OH Certified Chapter Leader and getting your information from an OH Chapter Leader, you are assured that if we do not have the answer, we know where to go to get it. We also know when it is a question to raise to a doctor and providing doctor's with the education in this very new field.
We just had a national conference in New Jersey with OH and it was very informative. I highly encourage everyone to go to the events page
www.obesityhelpevents.com
please find the events near you and make sure you register to attend with all your WLS friends and family members. Being at an OH event, you are learning from the nations leader in resources, information and education on WLS. OH is being heard by Congress, the U.S. Senate and the Insurance Industry, including Medicare who upon the testimony of OH experts, maintained approving WLS for Medicare patients. So, be very aware that an OH sponsored entity is the pinnacle source.
Please tell all you friends that Marine said to sign up now for OH, the individual state boards, look on the events site and come and join me on my Yahoo site for education. If you live near NYC, NY and you want to be a member of the support group that begins this Fall, sign up on the Yahoo board now and send an e-mail to me giving me your NAME, ADDRESS, PHONE and E-MAIL. You will be able to participate on the Yahoo site even if you are not near NYC. Everyone is welcome to the Yahoo board. Were here for you.
So come on over... We are up and waiting for you... Learn, get the right answers to your questions, educate yourself and live your very best as a successful WLS patient. Sign up for events, get OH Magazine, get POWER CRUNCH BARS from OH and you will save money and help support OH. Visit the OH Store and learn about becoming a Chapter Leader too...
Love to all of you...
Marine Jourdan
Kim N.
on 6/15/05 12:40 am - Sioux falls, SD
on 6/15/05 12:40 am - Sioux falls, SD
Topic: RE: PS Question!
I don't know either. I am 2.5 years out. Lost 106 and gained about 10 back. I think maybe the reason I gained the 10 back is because I got disgusted because I couldn't lose the last 10 lbs. to my personal goal of 150. Plus I am sure ins. won't pay for PS. I told myself that if I get the 10 lbs. back off I am going to at least do a consult with a PS. then I will look into loan options. Have you had any luck finding a PS? I thought about maybe calling Dr. Harris' office and asking them for a recommendation.
Lynn Novak
[email protected]
Topic: MOTHER OF 3 NEED CLOTHES LOST EVERTHING IN APT Fire
Mother needs help with PLUS SIZE CLOTHES 34 year old Mother of 3 lives here in Houston lost everything in an Apt. fire. She is a super size lady and clothes are need desperately. She wears between a 4x to 5x-6x if you have any clothes you would like to donate, I would be glad to pay for shipping. She is on a fixed income of less than 800.00 a month clothes are the one thing she couldn't afford to buy so if you have anything please again help. local agency like our local church are having a hard time finding large size clothes second hand and we can't afford new. please email me at [email protected]
Topic: MISS DOLLYS PETITION!!!!!!!!!!
k guys i challenge you all to see how many people from your address book that you can get them to sign... her petition site is
http://www.petitiononline.com/tlw2dp/petition.html
I already have 31 people out of my Address book that have signed... how many can you get...
I mean come on she looks like the younger version of Dolly herself... and she has came so far... So i know that if you have a heart then you can do this we are up to 640 people that have signed... come on let**** that 1000 mark....
COME ON LETS DO THIS FOR MISS DOLLY.... SHE SOOOO DESERVES THIS!!!!!
manda
***If i have to agree to change my hair color to blonde like miss dolly then i will if we can get to 1000 people to sign by midnight......***
Topic: PS Question!
Hello.... I was wondering if anyone knew of a surgeon in souix falls area that does PS............... If so please let me know...... Thanks!
Topic: What do you want at OH events?
Hi everyone -
I just was sent a great idea from Red Haired Girl and I had to thank her in front of all of you -
Here is part of the e-mail:
" She moves with the insouciance of someone who has always been 120 pounds, except when she stands up, when she looks a bit as if she's been fired from a slingshot. ("It's like, whoa-I'm used to going for the big lunge.")
This made me wonder if at your OH events do you ever do breakout sessions on movement. Not exercise. But movement. Teaching us how to move gracefully. It is something that many people never even think about. I do not see it discussed on the boards. With all of the changes ones body goes through after losing hundreds of pounds one probably does not have to stand up or sit down, walk or even gesture in the same manner as one did when heavy. One would probably be physically a little bit better abled to do it with more grace. If one knew how. Just a thought.
Red Haired
I thought that was a perfect class topic.
So here I am thinking - I am sure all of you have wonderful ideas out there - I would love to hear them - So I am asking the question -
What do YOU want to see at the ObesityHelp events?
We are looking at many things and would like your opinions to count in, as we are going to make these events bigger and better and what our members want to see, hear and do.
So the floor is open and I am listening...
This is your time to let us know - what you would like....
Thanks for taking the time to help us all grow stronger and better.
We are a family here and I need my brothers and sisters to help me with some fresh ideas.
If you would prefer to e-mail me:
[email protected]
It's a Lifestyle,
Monica Ganz,
Director of Event and Chapters
I just was sent a great idea from Red Haired Girl and I had to thank her in front of all of you -
Here is part of the e-mail:
" She moves with the insouciance of someone who has always been 120 pounds, except when she stands up, when she looks a bit as if she's been fired from a slingshot. ("It's like, whoa-I'm used to going for the big lunge.")
This made me wonder if at your OH events do you ever do breakout sessions on movement. Not exercise. But movement. Teaching us how to move gracefully. It is something that many people never even think about. I do not see it discussed on the boards. With all of the changes ones body goes through after losing hundreds of pounds one probably does not have to stand up or sit down, walk or even gesture in the same manner as one did when heavy. One would probably be physically a little bit better abled to do it with more grace. If one knew how. Just a thought.
Red Haired
I thought that was a perfect class topic.
So here I am thinking - I am sure all of you have wonderful ideas out there - I would love to hear them - So I am asking the question -
What do YOU want to see at the ObesityHelp events?
We are looking at many things and would like your opinions to count in, as we are going to make these events bigger and better and what our members want to see, hear and do.
So the floor is open and I am listening...
This is your time to let us know - what you would like....
Thanks for taking the time to help us all grow stronger and better.
We are a family here and I need my brothers and sisters to help me with some fresh ideas.
If you would prefer to e-mail me:
[email protected]
It's a Lifestyle,
Monica Ganz,
Director of Event and Chapters
Topic: Scrapbooking & Stamping Enthusiasts!!
Attention all scrapbooking and stamping enthusiasts!! There's a board just for you! Obesityhelp has LOTS of hobby boards on this site, and Scrapbooking/stamping just happens to be one of them!! YAY!
Come on over - check out the board. Introduce yourself and let us know what you LOVE about scrapbooking or stamping!!! This is a great board with some creative folks!! I love it there! Check it out!!
http://www.obesityhelp.com/morbidobesity/member-interests/scrapbooks/posts.html
Hugs,
Trisha
Topic: Live Surgery Webcast
Live Bariatric Webcast June 15, 2005
Dr. Adam Naaman will be performing innovative gastric bypass weight loss surgery live on June 15th at 5:30pm CDT.
To learn more about this webcast, please visit:
http://www.or-live.com/memorialhermann/1387/index.cfm?r=orlive
Thanks,
Obesityhelp.com Staff
Live Bariatric Webcast June 15, 2005
Dr. Adam Naaman will be performing innovative gastric bypass weight loss surgery live on June 15th at 5:30pm CDT.
To learn more about this webcast, please visit:
http://www.or-live.com/memorialhermann/1387/index.cfm?r=orlive
Thanks,
Obesityhelp.com Staff