Recent Posts
Topic: Hello everyone...
Hi! I haven't been over to the SC boards for a while, but I wanted to come over and say hi...we are two months away from moving over there.
I am now five months post-op, and down 91 pounds. Life has been so much better. I have more energy and can keep up with my boys now (well at least better). I could literally run with my boys for the first time about a month ago.
Anyway, just wanted to say hi to everyone over here, and I'm sure I'll be here more often!
~Annie
I am now five months post-op, and down 91 pounds. Life has been so much better. I have more energy and can keep up with my boys now (well at least better). I could literally run with my boys for the first time about a month ago.
Anyway, just wanted to say hi to everyone over here, and I'm sure I'll be here more often!
~Annie
Topic: RE: Walk from Obesity 2008
I joined the team!! Do you have any details on the event? Where it will be, how long the walk is, etc?
Melissa
Melissa
Topic: I've been outta daLoop !
I've been outta the loop for a LONG TIME!! What's going on? Who's doing what to whom? Where is everyone?
Tell me Tell me!!
Tell me Tell me!!
I rock..!!!
Topic: RE: SO tell me where you are in your life.....
What a wonderful posting. This is what OH should be all about. Just knowing that WLS is not the answer to all of our problems and that it is strictly a tool that can be abused and definetly stop working as we get out of the honeymoon phase. I am 21 months out from surgery and it is not easy maintaining my weight. I go up and down with the same 5 pounds over and over. One day it's up the next day it's down. I find I can eat more now than I could last year, so I have to be very careful. I still will get a sick feeling if I do eat more than I should, almost like dumping ,but it's not, unfortunetly it doesn't hit me until about 20 minutes after I'm done eating, then all I feel like doing is going to bed and sleeping it off, unless I can get out and walk it off. I want so bad to lose another 10 pounds and it seems as though I'm back to looking at diets that I did in the past but I'm having the same kind of results as back then, which is not losing the weight.
But, on a good note, I am much more active now, and can do things that I had given up on because my weight hindered me from certain activites, like hunting. Yes I hunt, and love it ,now that I can walk the distances and fit into hunting clothes, lol. I can run up stairs that two years ago I couldn't even walk up without my knees feeling like they were going to give way under me. I can shop for regular size clothes with one draw back........my closet is now full of clothes again, which is what I said I would never do once I got rid of all my big sizes, but alas, the shopping bug has bit me again and I can't pass up a good sale on clothes. I love my job, something I can't ever remember saying in the 30 something years I have been working.
I still have the problem of looking in the mirror and not seeing a thinner me. I catch myself thinking that people still look at me as a fat person and I sometimes feel uncomfortable around strangers due to those thoughts. I wonder if that feeling will ever go away? I have had people say they wish they were as thin as I am and then I have to look around to make sure they are talking about me, lol.
All in all this is the best thing I have ever done for my self. NO it's not easy and NO it's not going to solve all of your problems, but.........it will give you a healthier and hopefully happier life.
Thanks for posting, it's nice to see someone else writing again. I'm like you, all of my old WLS buddies are gone and it's not the same on here as it use to be. I miss the old crowd and wish they would at least post on occasion so we know they are still out there and alive and well.
WHEW! This is long winded so I will go now and go shopping, not for clothes though, lol.
Take care and good luck with everything.
Mary
But, on a good note, I am much more active now, and can do things that I had given up on because my weight hindered me from certain activites, like hunting. Yes I hunt, and love it ,now that I can walk the distances and fit into hunting clothes, lol. I can run up stairs that two years ago I couldn't even walk up without my knees feeling like they were going to give way under me. I can shop for regular size clothes with one draw back........my closet is now full of clothes again, which is what I said I would never do once I got rid of all my big sizes, but alas, the shopping bug has bit me again and I can't pass up a good sale on clothes. I love my job, something I can't ever remember saying in the 30 something years I have been working.
I still have the problem of looking in the mirror and not seeing a thinner me. I catch myself thinking that people still look at me as a fat person and I sometimes feel uncomfortable around strangers due to those thoughts. I wonder if that feeling will ever go away? I have had people say they wish they were as thin as I am and then I have to look around to make sure they are talking about me, lol.
All in all this is the best thing I have ever done for my self. NO it's not easy and NO it's not going to solve all of your problems, but.........it will give you a healthier and hopefully happier life.
Thanks for posting, it's nice to see someone else writing again. I'm like you, all of my old WLS buddies are gone and it's not the same on here as it use to be. I miss the old crowd and wish they would at least post on occasion so we know they are still out there and alive and well.
WHEW! This is long winded so I will go now and go shopping, not for clothes though, lol.
Take care and good luck with everything.
Mary
IF WE WEREN'T ALL CRAZY WE WOULD GO INSANE!
Jimmy Buffett
Jimmy Buffett
Topic: SO tell me where you are in your life.....
Hello everyone .
Just wanted to say hello. Now that I am living in SC,things are starting to calm down and I am trying to get life back to normal (whatever that migth be) I have to tell you I have been doing alot of thinking about where I am in my life and especially with my surgery. I told Dianne when I moved down here how exciting it was going to be to for once in my life be partnered with a person that has also had the surgery. We had planned walks, Healthier eating and a commitment to in general better health. I have to say none of that is happening. I guess the moral to that is, that it isnt happening because is we arent making it happen. Life is so busy trying to figure out where I am . A new job and also trying to make a new relationship work. I am afraid to head for the scales yet I know I need to. Another big stresser is not knowing anyone. I lived 40 years in Ky and i knew my surroundings,,,,,Now I know no one. Am I complaining NOOOOO,
I guess I am just saying If you are having this surgery to make everything better in your life , it is a great tool to help you loose weight, But as a tool your mind is what is really in control. The everyday stressers that in alot of cases made some of obese will still come back and in some cases with a fury! As I write this a tear runs down my face because I look back at almost 4 years ago when I was so excited and bullit proof because this surgery was going to make me skinny and happy.... I look back at 3 years ago when I losst 300 lbs the first year and was on top of the world because my new tummy was in control....I look back to 2 years ago when i was sustaining but not loosing.......I look back to a year ago when the weight loss was a battle again and I was working my ass off not to gain and some of my older close where getting tight or not fitting.......
This is reality folks we make our success.... Would I have changed anything hell no!!!!!!! It makes me who I am and what people like about me........ As far as everything else in my life I am a success but its now time to take control of what scares me and fight that.
Dianne is so wonderful and supportive of my dreams and most of all we work hard to atleast hold our weight. She like me has struggles with her mind as far as what she needs to do that is good and bad (dont we all). She has had the band yet not the same she struggles with trying to find that "sweet spot" She looks great and she does want me to work harder because I do want to spend a great future with her so we will overcome.
The company I work at is a nightmare and even though the money is great I have to say the worst company I have ever worked at , with long hours , nights and weekend....This is where I need to start looking to fix.
As far as friends I have made some many through the years on OH ,, But I have to say as the time goes by they are fading away.... I thnk for the most reason once we loose the weight we find we can enjoy life and we look for higher standards and more activity...... On the flip side I have seen people fail at the wls and they have slipped away because they are ashamed......
This is one of my hardest struggles right now I miss the friendships I have made.... the daily struggles of my freinds and most of all the successes.... I hope none of you slipp away for any reasons.....
I guess in closing I want to thank each of you for being a freind most of you dont know me or have never met me... But being able to read your goals, accomplishment or your struggles makes me a better person almost 4 years after the fight for my life. I admire each of you because you make me feel real and let me know I am not alone. thanks you most of all for listening and believing........ron
This is where I am where are you?
Just wanted to say hello. Now that I am living in SC,things are starting to calm down and I am trying to get life back to normal (whatever that migth be) I have to tell you I have been doing alot of thinking about where I am in my life and especially with my surgery. I told Dianne when I moved down here how exciting it was going to be to for once in my life be partnered with a person that has also had the surgery. We had planned walks, Healthier eating and a commitment to in general better health. I have to say none of that is happening. I guess the moral to that is, that it isnt happening because is we arent making it happen. Life is so busy trying to figure out where I am . A new job and also trying to make a new relationship work. I am afraid to head for the scales yet I know I need to. Another big stresser is not knowing anyone. I lived 40 years in Ky and i knew my surroundings,,,,,Now I know no one. Am I complaining NOOOOO,
I guess I am just saying If you are having this surgery to make everything better in your life , it is a great tool to help you loose weight, But as a tool your mind is what is really in control. The everyday stressers that in alot of cases made some of obese will still come back and in some cases with a fury! As I write this a tear runs down my face because I look back at almost 4 years ago when I was so excited and bullit proof because this surgery was going to make me skinny and happy.... I look back at 3 years ago when I losst 300 lbs the first year and was on top of the world because my new tummy was in control....I look back to 2 years ago when i was sustaining but not loosing.......I look back to a year ago when the weight loss was a battle again and I was working my ass off not to gain and some of my older close where getting tight or not fitting.......
This is reality folks we make our success.... Would I have changed anything hell no!!!!!!! It makes me who I am and what people like about me........ As far as everything else in my life I am a success but its now time to take control of what scares me and fight that.
Dianne is so wonderful and supportive of my dreams and most of all we work hard to atleast hold our weight. She like me has struggles with her mind as far as what she needs to do that is good and bad (dont we all). She has had the band yet not the same she struggles with trying to find that "sweet spot" She looks great and she does want me to work harder because I do want to spend a great future with her so we will overcome.
The company I work at is a nightmare and even though the money is great I have to say the worst company I have ever worked at , with long hours , nights and weekend....This is where I need to start looking to fix.
As far as friends I have made some many through the years on OH ,, But I have to say as the time goes by they are fading away.... I thnk for the most reason once we loose the weight we find we can enjoy life and we look for higher standards and more activity...... On the flip side I have seen people fail at the wls and they have slipped away because they are ashamed......
This is one of my hardest struggles right now I miss the friendships I have made.... the daily struggles of my freinds and most of all the successes.... I hope none of you slipp away for any reasons.....
I guess in closing I want to thank each of you for being a freind most of you dont know me or have never met me... But being able to read your goals, accomplishment or your struggles makes me a better person almost 4 years after the fight for my life. I admire each of you because you make me feel real and let me know I am not alone. thanks you most of all for listening and believing........ron
This is where I am where are you?
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Topic: RE: Lapband Surgery - How much weight do you lose
I was banded with the Realize band on 06-03-08 and have lost 39 lbs. I am happy with a steady weight loss and love my band! I've gone from a size 26/28W to an 18W in that time. Yes, you do lose slower than with RNY but I think that may be a good thing as it allows your skin to conform better during the loss process and hopefully not have as much saggy skin. I also liked that there is no dumping syndrome.
Topic: RE: Well Its official!!!!!!
Welcome! Hope you love it in South Carolina... your gonna love it. The people are great.... True southern hospitality. It is good to see you are back on the boards. Looking forward to hearing some of your poetry.
Topic: RE: anyone from SC coast area?
Hi Carolina Forest. I had VSG on the 21st. If you would like to call me please do so. 450-2080.
Hope you are doing well. I feel fantastic.
Sara
new name on OH -- Carogrl
Hope you are doing well. I feel fantastic.
Sara
new name on OH -- Carogrl
Topic: RE: Well Its official!!!!!!
Welcome to Columbia,
Lots of things to do and some of the folks I work with live in Newberry. Great little town.
A bit far from Columbia for my nickel, but nice place to live.
Hope you love it here.
Tink
Lots of things to do and some of the folks I work with live in Newberry. Great little town.
A bit far from Columbia for my nickel, but nice place to live.
Hope you love it here.
Tink
Topic: RE: 18month check-up at 21months
Glad to hear you are doing so well Eddie. I am happy for you and Lesley...you deserve each other and I wish you all the best!!!!