Hi!  I am mostly lurking these days but saw your post and thought I would offer some advice. First off I am so sorry you are going though that with your surgeon.  Have you actually talked to the surgeon about your frustrations with his/her office.  I know I am allowed to email my surgeon directly if needed.  It may take a few days to get a response but I always get one. If that does not work, I would try finding a Primary Care Physician that is familar with Gastric Bypass patients or even another GI surgeon that is familar.  This is a tough journey and it last the rest of your life.  I am 2.5 yrs out and still count on my surgeon to be there.  I also have a PCP that knows and is familar with my needs now.  I may be wrong but you can have your PCP draw the needed blood work anf follow up care and give a copy to your GB surgeon. 

Hang in there, your weight loss will pick back up.  You will have the stalls and plateaus all through out.  Just do not let it get you down.  Go back to basics and also change up your exercise routine.  Sometimes if you do the same thing over and over your body, for lack of a better phrase, gets use to it and stalls the weight loss.  Before I had the surgery I walked 3 miles 4-5 times a week and could not lose weight.  My eating has something to do with it as well.    But even when I was watching what I ate, I also stalled!  So change up your exercise and concenrtrate on protein first then veggies.  I am trying to get back to that as I have slid alot over the past 6 months.

This is hard!  But you can do it.
I hope this helps
Julie