Hey Yall!!!!

Hey you all.  I know I've been missing in action for sometime now...lets do an update for all of my peeps that I miss so dearly. All last year I had said that if Trent and I had no plans to get married by the end of the year, I was moving on.  After all, it has only been 14 years. So the end of the year comes and goes and we were no closer to get married.  We started house hunting and I thought that ment something.  It did, another house payment.  I Love Trent and as much as it hurt, I ask him to move out.  He did this in Feb.  So for several months it was bad.  I mean how do you walk away from someone you Love so dearly, for what seems like no good reason at all...but to me my reason of 14 years was plenty. So after a few months we both were going to counceling.  I had started to talk to a new man.  As you can guess, Trent didn't take too well to that.  I have never stopped Loving Trent, I just got to the point of what does love have to do with it. After a few months of him living in this big new house alone, we started to talk about the future. About 4 weeks ago he took me on this romantic scavenger hunt, which ended up at the battery at sunset, with him on one knee in the gazibo, asking me to marry him. Now all of you that know Trent, know he is a great man, he is also so thoughtful and romantic. After thinking about it for about....10 secounds, I accepted. Now there is a wedding scheduled for June 14, 2008 at Miles Road Baptist Church in Summerville, @ 7pm. The first part of this year was so bad, but I ment that I was not settling in life anymore.  I also knew that 2008 was going to be great, one way or the other.   After Trent moved out I had regressed inside of my turtle shell and have not been on this computer, made or accepted many phone calls or been very social.  Now life is getting so much better. On another note, Susan's mom is staying with her now.  She has been there for about a month.  I doubt that she lives more than another day or two.  Susan is such a dedicated daughter and friend.  I hope she takes care of me when I get old.  If any of you get a chance, please drop her a call. Well, I miss you all.  And to all of you newbies tha I have not met, WELCOME !!! Deb

WOW!!!! THAT WAS ALOT...... I was wondering what happen to you???? Congratz.... to you and Trent.. I hope the best for the both of you.... Please tell Susan she is in my Prayers.. and stay strong..                                                                                                      love Sharona

Congrats Deb, that is wonderful!  The Board has been VERY quiet for quite some time now...we all have been busy living our lives.  I hope to have something soon for all the LCBBers out there since it has been so long since we have all been together. Please tell Susan she is in my thoughts and prayers.

susan lost her mom at 4:00 this morning.....please keep her and her family in your prayers.  Deb

WELL HELLO THERE LONG TIME I THOUGHT YOU FELL OFF A CLIFF OR SOMETHING ,SO GLAD TO HEAR YOU HAD TO GIVE YOUR MAN A SWIFT KICK IN THE REAR TO SEE WHAT A WONDERFULL LADY HE WAS GOING TO LOOSE IF HE LET YOU GO! SO A WEDDING YEA FOR YOU BOTH ,     PLEASE SEND SUSAN MY LOVE & SUPPORT NOW HER MOM  WONT HAVE TO SUFFER ANY MORE & I MISS YOU ALL SO MUCH KEEP IN TOUCH BECKY    PS: WE WANT PICS OK OF THE WEDDING

Hey Deb, I have been wondering where you were. I haven't seen you on here and just wondered what was wrong. You are not usually this quiet. LOL. I am so sorry you were going through all that and none of us really knew, but I am glad he came to his senses. You deserve this. If I am feeling well that day I will be there. This has been a terrible pregnancy (headaches still almost 7 months into it) and needless to say these tubes are getting tied right when this baby comes out. I am too old anyway. Oh well, keep in touch. Congratulations!!!! I am so happy for you. If you need anything let me know.  Tina

Sometimes men just need their eyes opened to what they have. Sorry it was a rough time, but glad it worked out in the end.
Sorry to hear about Susans mom...she is in our prayers.

That is a lot, Deb - you are an incredible woman to be so devoted, so open & so loving.  Take care of yourself & keep us all in touch!

Good to hear from you I haven't been on the board much recently Wondered what you were up to, Congratulations to you and Trent Sometimes you need to use shock tactics for people to realize how much they need and want you. Tell Susan I'm very sorry to hear about her mom. Need to meet as a group soon Lesley