need help..

so i had a hernia doc come in at the same time as the ps to fix the "hernia" that i have had pop out of my muscles 3 times.. well he said after surgery he couldnt find a hernia anywhere. .and that my stomach looked like a newborns, (7 surgeries later i doubt that).. and he said "we even strained you in the OR and nothing popped out" .. this struck me as odd, i was crying and really upset that he didnt fix the problem bc i know its there and the hernia doc was pretty much saying it wasnt. .i was like "Well i guess i have a lil alien in my stomach that likes to pop out" .. but anyways my issue now is i found a Hemeroid (sp) this morning.. it has been there since surgery, i have just been patting my bottom clean, and i noticed it was sore but i hadnt felt of it until this morning.. i still havent pooped or pooted (tmi) but there is this big hemeroid. i have NEVER had these before.. and i know it was during surgery i got it.. my wondering is HOW DID HE DO THIS TO ME?!? How would they STRAIN me??? i am imagining the worse and im very upset.. especially since i have never had this before and now i do bc of something this hernia doc did.. im waiting for my ps to call me back and im going to ask him how it was done, and what to do.. im not on any muscle relaxers or anything and im hurting pretty badly obviously from them "straining" me and digging for this hernia. .i think i should be on muscle relaxers? im on tylox 500 mg every 4 hours.. what do yall think? thanks so much.. my emotions are wild today after finding this, i feel violated in a way!
jen

they put me on muscle relaxers after my TT that helped alot I would ask for some for sure because where they made the six pack at wow it hurt me bad ,& get some prep H  for your other prob lol I use to have hemeroid all the time but now I have lost weight  I have not had one thank God ,rest & take it easy

Oh my poor friend! I think I would call the hernia guy and ask what's up or call Dr. Bour and tell him what happened and what he said to you. I have the "rhoid" occasionally and I use prep h and tucks pads. Sometimes the md can prescribe a cream that works a lot faster. Call me tonight and we can talk about it and maybe I can at least make you laugh!!! Love you lots, Patti Ps I started my Chantix today to quit smoking......

well upon freaking out at 6 this am, i called carbonells office which is bours also.. and they got the dr on call to call me, which was bour. so i feel like a moron for calling and waking him for a roid lmao!!! i can apologize later. he was like "Take a deep breath and calm down" lol!!! i was like "i was wanting to wake up carbonell to see what he did to me " LOL and dont call me and make me laugh it hurts WAY too bad to laugh! found that out the hard way. eek. congrats on the chantix! just think of those new boobies! ps. i sent u a private msg!

I was given a muscle relaxant along with the pain meds and I ended up taking the MR's longer than the pain meds. I took tylox for the first 5 days then he switched me to lortab and I took them for two more days but I was on the MR's for 3 weeks. Girl you need something other than the pain meds, they did a lot of cutting on your muscles, I can't believe he didn't give you any. As far as the hernia, it's strange they couldn't find it. Did Bour send you for a CT scan? I thought I had one too and he sent me for one and it found i have diverticulitus and not a hernia. I have a lot of pain on my lower left side and it also knots up to where you can see it. I had this long before my GB and my family doctor thought it was my one and only ovary so I had a pelvic ultrasound that showed nadda, they couldnt even find my ovary, lol.  Well, I  know it is frustraiting so hang in there and hope you get to feeling better soon. Love Ya! Mary

I was also on muscle relaxers for about a week after my TT. I have had Roids before so I feel your pain, no pun intended.  Prep H and wipes help, also if you can, soak in a bath with ho****er and epson salt.  Fill the tub just enough to sit down and relax.  That is what my Dr tols me to do when I get one. I hope this helps, Julie