new life on the horizon...?

Well,  i just past the 1 year mark for discovering my hubby's affair.  Needless to say, we are separated and on the very rocky road to divorce.  I have started talking to a guy at my school and so far things have been good.  I'm having a hard time believing that there are really good guys out there like him.  But, maybe that is because I lived with an ass for 6 years.  So far he has been great.  A little older but still wonderful.  We will have to see...?   I'm still a little apprehensive....

For the first year and one-half after my ex left I convinced myself all men were jerks and I didn't want/need one in my life....I could take care of myself.  Important thing is to realize you don't NEED to have a man....unless you find one you WANT.  When Jen introduced me to her Dad there was something about him that made me know I wanted him.  We had a very quick whirlwind romance and now 7 months later my feelings for him are only stronger (which I didn't think was possible).  I have never been more certain that something was right and am looking forward to starting my life over again with him. Okay, enough mush...good luck girl, but take it slow and easy for awhile and let me know if I can help/lend an ear...

Too True!!! I think we get better (smarter?) with some age on us  After my divorce I never thought anyone would want a fat, old, mother of two and then someone upstairs decided I needed some good in my life.  When I met Phil, something "clicked" and I knew.  We too had a whirlwind romance and within a year were married and the parents of a new baby boy and he was now an instant step-dad to my two other children.   Fast forward, and this past Christmas we have been married 10 years!!! - He has supported me and the kids through everything. (including WLS) and I couldn't be happier.    When you least expect it,  you will be shown how good life can be!!   Remember you deserve it.