I'm So Disappionted and Upset

Well I was so excited that my appointment with the psychologist was next week because it is my last appointment before  my paperwork gets sent off to the insurance company. Well just a minute ago I got a call saying that my appointment for January 28, that I have been looking forward to for weeks has to be changed to Feb 7th.  I know that this may not seem like a big deal to alot of you but to me it is just so disappointing. I seriously cried I am so disappointed, its hard to get prepared for these appointments knowing that it is the last step in your process and now to have it changed just really sucks.

Hang in there! My follow up appt for the psychologist was also on the 29th..and also moved to the 7th.  My appt is at  10:30- God's timing is the best timing.   I know you are disappointed....but stay strong! :) Angela

Thank you, I am better now I just get myself so psyched up for things and then when I get let down I overreact I suppose.

It's very natural to get hyped & then down when you get a disappointment like this.  But you certainly have the right attitude now!  A new day - a new challenge - and new expectations!  Keep the chin up, hon...

Hang in there JessB,  the same thing has happened to me, My appointment with Dr Bour got cancelled 2 times and my appointment with Armstrong got cancelled and It was about a month later that I got to see Dr Calhoun.  So hang in there ...It's very disappointing.  but like Angela said, God's timing is better.   This whole journey has been something else.  I am not real good at handling disappointment, but I am learning.....there are so many waiting for WLS that it's unreal.   And they want the best,  And my research shows Dr Bour is the best around.  So hang on  Praying for ya 

Feb 7th is a good luck day.  My surgery was changed, last year, to Feb 7th and I have done great.  I know its hard when you have your sites set, but step back, take a big breath and hold on, the ride has only just begin. Deb

Thanks so much everyone :)

Hey Jess! Hang in there girl! I'm sure all of us on here can relate to your feelings of dissapointment...the journey of getting to have this amazing surgery for most is an emotional rollercoster, or at least a few times during the approval process...it's hard when you've had your heart, mind and total being set on a date, expecially when's it's an appt that's going to get you one step closer to having your surgery, try to stay positive and think of it as, for some reason it's better for you to go in on the 7th than the other date...Sending you so much love and encouragement!!! Stay Strong...Your time is coming!!!! xoxoxox no

Jess, don't let it get you down. I've been through the same thing. When my insurance papers were sent in I was told my date was Feb. 19. Now my surgery date is March 4th. I hope they don't change that. lol I cried a couple of times myself. More because I was mad because I didn't stand up for myself and ask why it was changed. But I will finally get there, one day or another. When I'm drinking the optfast then I'll know it's for real. Teresa M.

It really is like a rollercoaster isn't it.  I feel better about it now, everyone says that God has a plan and even my mom says that all things happen for a greater reason so while I am still a little disappointed,  I will buck up and wait it out just like everyone else here. Its brings my own feelings into a new perspective when I see that other people are feeling and going through the same things. So again thank you all so much.