Wow!!! You aren't gonna believe this...

Hi Rachel I'm so sorry about your problems.  Instead of just a separation, why didn't your attorney file for a divorce on the ground of adultery?  That would save you having to have two court actions. My first husband did the same thing to me and it was bad enough finding out about the other woman, but in my case, the other woman was my best friend (or so I thought)!  That happend to Susann, too! Don't forget what Ivana Trump says, doing well is the best revenge!  Hold your head up high and know you're the better person. We're all here for you. Love,  Dollie

She did file straight for a divorce and not a separation.  Hopefully it will be done in April.  Trying to keep it is civil as possible.  I love your quote.  Rachel

Hi Rachel I'm glad she filed for the divorce ~ it's so much easier and cheaper.  I'm a paralegal and just about all we do is family law.  Just put it all behind you as quickly as possible. Have a great day. Dollie

Sounds like you have your head on straight & are making all the right moves, girl!  The stupid man will pay his dues (as well as your lawyer's fees...) eventually. So keep that beautiful head up high, keep the stilettos handy (they can sure hurt when placed in certain spots of the anatomy), and know that you have a lot of support behind you, beside you, and all around you! Hugs - Hellen

Thanks.  Need to buy my stilettos.  LOL!!!  His time is coming.  That is all that gives me satisfaction.  Rachel

Rachel, I am so sorry about all this but it is for the best.  Get out and get out for good.  I am so proud of you for getting a ball busting attorney.  You do not deserve this and you better come to Charleston soon! If you need to talk email me! Love you and standing in your corner! Julie

Thanks.  I hope to make it to Charleston soon.  Gotta wait until after divorce (probably) but I WILL get down there to celebrate!!! 

THAT MUTHUA FALKER!!!!!!!!! I hate that you are going through this so much.  I knows we were all hoping to be wrong about his cheatin' ass.  Ohhhh.  I just want to come up there and get Cathy and her box cutter and go to work. You are so beautiful and great and will surprise yourself the strength you will find you have.  Don't feel sorry for him and fall for any poor mouth stories.  He sure didn't feel bad for you.  The *******!!!! Yea, keep your head on straight, make the choices you do after thinking clearly, and know every dog has their day. I hope your attorney takes his drawers. When you get your thoughts straight, and you are ready, know that we down here are all here for you and support you 100%. Deb

Thanks.  I appreciate the support.  Every dog has his day, and I can't wait to see him squirming in the lawyers office. LOL!!

In love or in lust? Hope she feels the same way about him. It's too bad that not only is your marriage down the drain, but another one is also on its way down and unfortunetely the other is taking small children with it.  Wonder if her hubby knows?  If not maybe he should, lol.  Your a strong person whether you think so or not. You will find out you don't need his crap and have a little satisfaction thinking that if he did it to you he will more than likely do it to her too, after all, he loved you at one time too. Cheating *******s don't usually only do it one time to one person, it continues no matter what the relationship is like. It's due to the insecurities that person has with themselves and they need a ego boost from someone else from time to time. Hang in there girl it is for the best and you will move on to bigger and better things without him. Love Ya! Mary