Just saying hi...

Long time no hear huh?  Sorry I haven't been posting lately, just very busy being back to work and the kids being out of school.  Things are going well with me.  I'm still able to eat and drink and have tons of energy now.  I've gone from a size 24 to a 14 (some 12's) and have lost 75 lbs in 5 months.  God is good but my husband is an idiot that I truly think I'm going to divorce really soon.  Ok, so I let a little of my anger slide in this lovely post but hey it is what it T-I-S!  I truly understand why the divorce rate is so high, hell if it wasn't the murder rate would be much higher!!!  Well,  I just wanted to say hi! Robin

Girl you are looking Great.. I hope to see you soon. Glad you are doing so much better.                                                                           your friend Sharon

     Hi Robin...  its ok to let your anger out.   Its very important to, so that it doesnt eat you up inside.   That is how trouble starts for me, anyway...  wls can be so difficult on all relationships, particularly those of the heart!!    I know you have so much on 'your plate' too.     Keep posting, or get to some support meetings, or excercise.... whatever works for you to get your stress out....  just stay away from the sharp objects....   :) hugs! J. xo

Hey girl, I feel ya. I so know the feeling. I don't think it is the surgery that causes divorces, but it is the confidence that we get from having surgery that gives people who were already having marriage problems the security to move on with their lives. I mean I used to feel so bad about myself I didn't think anyone else would want to be with me so I stayed and stayed in my marriage when I really wanted to get a divorce. I was scared, now I would not be. Anyway, things will be ok. Life after surgery takes some getting used to. It is a drastic change. Love ya.  Keep in touch, Tina

Hi Robin!  Glad to hear you are doing so well   Sorry about hubby .  Vent all you like!  If needed we can collect bail money if needed.

Julie

 

I have been thinking about you alot lately.  I am so glad to hear the body is doing well, even if the hubby isn't.  I can feel ya, I have so much less tollerence for stupid stuff now.  And disrespect...it just ain't happining anymore, I have even less time for that. I too have lost right at 75 pounds, but I have only gone from a size 24-26 to an 18.  I am thrilled about that though.  I guess we all carry it in different places.  Mine is all in my tummy.  I wish they could ma**** down to my butt.  Keep in touch girl.

girl I was thinking about you & wondering how things are going now that you are up & running now ,so glad you are feeling so much better now & able to eat, keep up the good work miss you& about the hubby give him a swift kick in the arce & wake him up he will rethink what a great woman he is about to loose !hope to see you soon come Thursday so we can see you some time ,,if you need anything just let me know & take care of your self

Hi Robin.  I was just thinking about you and wondering how you were.  Glad to hear you are doing so much better..and congrats on the weight loss, that is wonderful! As for the hubby, mine left me 3 months after my surgery...and I am SO MUCH BETTER OFF.  Never knew what I was giving up/missing.....  I hope it works out for you in whatever way is best for YOU. Take care and hope we see you again soon at LCBB meeting.

Thank you all so much for the advice and laughter.  Julie I'll keep the bond money handy just in case.  I did put away all sharp objects within reach to play it safe.  I miss you all so much and hope to see you all soon. Robin