All business aside....

note: i couldnt see your post until I hit "Reply" so.. anyone who cant see it either, hit reply to the first one and it will show her post but here is it in case..  Crystals post:  On June 12, 2007 at 5:01 AM Pacific Time, Crystal M. wrote: ok! ladies and Chris... I have a "serious" question to ask... well actually topic to chat about. since deciding to go with WLS... I have been taking baby steps to prepare. Lil changes here and there and slowly getting my paperwork together... but my husband is getting more and more possessive.  He has started making really "odd" comments about men that are nice to me...the other day at church a friend was really nice to me... and I told my husband that I really loved him (remember we were at church) and my husband looks at me and said "youre going to get him killed!" ....WTH????? I wont lie to you guys and tell you that there isnt a history of things that have forced us apart... but we we have tried to salvage what we could and work thru the rest with time... but now that I am starting over with WLS... he all of a sudden "see's the light" and wants me for him. Well, what if thats like too little too late..... I know alot of WLS experience jealousy issues afterwards and the divorce rate is crazy for WLS folks... but most of you seem to have functioning marriages so I was just wondering what u did to get thru the trial!?!?!? and advice or tidbits would be great! NOW MY REPLY..  Functioning? LOL Functioning for us is not killing each other  We have had our issues.. jealousy problems, insecurity issues.. etc.. its not all dandy for everyone. I think the reason the WLS Divorce rate is so high is people get smaller, feel better and realize they are better than the crap they take from their mate and can for once find someone "better" in their eyes.. Which is or is not the "right" reason to leave someone.. i look at what all me and rob have been through and i stick it out bc i do love him and i know he loves me.. he doesnt know how to show it sometimes but my girls are the world to me and i dont wanna break their hearts.. theres more sunny days than cloudy ones. :) hope yours gets better!