Please Help!!! Need encouragment!!!!

Hey guys, I am just sitting here having a pity party, and I need some help to get out of this mode.  I had everything going full force for my surgery then I hit a major bump.  All the surgery dates are booked with Dr. *****ett until the end of June.  Since my husband is being transfered middle of July it is just too much of a safety risk to have it done in July.  (here anyway) Dr. *****ett's office staff were really wonderful and I understand why I can't have it here; but I have to start all over again when we get to Alabama.  I mean all over !!! I have to go to my PCP and get another referal, and etc, etc.  I called Tricare and they said it shouldn't be a problem getting approval again and it wouldn't hurt me as far as approval from them because if you are elligable then nothing  changes. I don't know .  I am just so bumbed about everything.  I am litterally depressed and crying my eyes out!! I need some prayers and advice big time to get me out of this slump!!!!  Please, Please help me !! All advice and words of wisdom will be appreciated!!!!!! JJ

Hi JJ, I am so sorry you are going through this ordeal. I will pray for all the paperwork etc. to go through real fast so you don't have to wait. It is worth the wait believe me. But I am sorry you have this let down. Keep your head up and know you have friends and the good LORD to get you through. love Jennifer

No Worries!! During my process I had my fair share of speed bumps, and to me they all felt huge.  There were times when I had almost given up, I fall off my diet plan and gained a few pounds.  Once the time was right, we schedule a date I then had to really push myself to lose the extra weight before my doc would go through with surgery.  Looking back now I realize that it was all part of the man upstairs master plan.  Had I had surgery earlier I would not have had my mother here in time to stay with my daughter and help out during the past couple of weeks.  So trust me I've been there I know it's hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel but I'm telling you it's there.  There is a reason for everything!  Your time will come and when it does you'll be completely ready and appreciated it more.  Which helped me through the pain.  During those times in the hospital when the last thing I wanted was more tests or more walking I pushed through cause I had finally gotten what I wanted.  My Doc even mentioned I was smiling more then he had seen anyone smile right out of surgery.  Long story short...lol Hang in there, it will happen to you too.  Feel free to email me anytime you need a push. Hope I've helped. Jamie

Thank you so much!!!!   This is exactly what I needed to push on through.  I love this message board.  Everyone here is in different stages and it helps so much to have people that encourage you and drive you on.   I really would prob. just give up out of pure desperation if it wasn't for all the great people here.                                                                                                                                           Thank you so much for taking the time to care!! It is really a God sent ; and such a help to my heart.   

Thank you again!!!

JJ

JJ...I know this is hard but I think most of us had a bump or two in the process of getting this surgery approved and scheduled.  Hang in there, God has his reasons.  Maybe you weren't supposed to move so soon after surgery...or maybe you need to get settled and meet new people first.  Whatever the reason, I know when it is right it will happen.   Keep us posted on your progress and I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Hi Jaye Jaye, I am so sorry for all the delay! You said Dr. *****ett is booked up. Is Dr. Tribble booked up too? Just wondering? I will sure be saying a prayer for you.  I know everything will work out for you. God bless you. Cindy Stampe

I am not really sure about Dr. Tribble.  Where my problems are is that we will be moving at the end of June and with that date so close by Dr. *****ett just didn't want to operate and have me leave so soon after.( I mean it would have been two weeks after surgery...if they had gone ahead and scheduled my surgery at the end of June).  They just didn't want to do the surgery and kind of send me off to another doctor's door step.   The main nurse at Dr. *****ett's said that sometimes their are complications that require a longer stay in the hospital and it was just a safety issue because of such a short time till we would be moving.  I mean I understand.  They were great, and I do appreciate the honesty and saftey concern.  It is just so mentally tiring to start over again. but I will do what I have to do to make it possible. Please keep praying for me!! Jaye Jaye

I sure will keep you in my prayers! When you do move please keep in touch and let me know how you are doing and when you will be having your surgery? I know it is tough to wait. I sure hope all the best for you. Cindy