What the @#$% is going on now?!?

Hey did I miss something? What's going on with our friends? I've read a few posts and don't understand what happened? I'm pretty dang sure that we are all adults here and not in high school! No one should be worrying about who said what aobut them behind their backs because people talked about JESUS CHRIST and you know they will talk about you. If your dr in UPstate or any state for that matter approaches you on some he say she say bull, it's time to switch doctors and file a nice lawsuit for mental anguish! I'm reaching out to all of you to stop the drama and acting like you're somebodies mama!! Worry about yourselves and your successes and failures, share what you care to share, then move on. Stop judging people because you will surely be judged by GOD. All of us are different in many, many ways, we just happened to have the same type of surgery and have agreed to speak openly about how it has affected our lives. Stop thinking that anyone should think, react, eat, dance, speak, sleep, or date the way you do! I'm not even sure who I am directing this post to but I'm tired of hearing of this kind of drama on the boards. We all come here to get support, laughter, relief, advice, and friendship. If you are not here for those things then take the high road and bow out gracefully. Those who are your true friends will keep in touch and you wont have to worry about the ones who are not your friends. I hope everyone is able to take heed to these words and forgive me if I have offended any of you. I just want us all to be happy for once in our lives, we have been through too much to have this type of stuff happen to any of us. Take care huns. Robin

Thank you Robin. Enough said. I have actually started to stray from the board b/c of stupid crap like this!!!

IRIS.... you cant let people run you off. Who cares if they snitch on you because you ate a cookie??? They wear the same shoes as you. Let it roll of your back and stay on the team. You gotta keep your friends close and your enemies closer ya know!!!?? LUV YA PRETTY LADY!!!!

Iris, do not stray away from here. Everyone here is very supportive, it is the minority that is stirring the pot. And from what I gather, it is the ones that mostly lurk and do not post. I am a firm believer that the positive support I get from these people, whether is it a kind word or a funny story that makes my day, is the reason I am still on the board and had the surgery. Hearing everyones stories, helped me realize that I can make this life change and be a success at it. Dont let a few ruin this wonderful board and any help that you can get from it. Julie

Robin, I just had to pop in and say "YOUR PIC LOOKS FREAKING FABULOUS!!!!" Have a great day!!! ~Melissa

Thanks hun!!

I agree with you 100% Robin. I need the support I get here!! It's only a few people that are causing the problems. I agree people will talk about you to the day you die. It doesn't matter what they say.