just have to say..

That i heard from someone about what happened at dr b's meeting tonight.. and i must say that i am Furious. totally livid. it is obvious to whom they were speaking.. since i sent an email to them with the 7 of us who went to the beach and lost over how many lbs.. or whatever. . but im not going to go into it all on here.. i just wanted to let everyone know that i will no longer be posting what i eat here, where i go, or what i do in my spare time.. What I do is my free will.. I control my own destiny. If I feel like some chicken fingers and some french fries every now and then so be it. If i happen to gain a couple of lbs i will pick myself up dust myself off and move on from there. I am me. Thats all I can be. If someone from a doctors office feels like snooping on our message board and "telling" on us for what we do or what they THINK we do then they need to get a life. PERIOD. Now that I have a headache from my blood pressure being sky high, i think i will go to bed! jen

and ps.. im not talking about anyone from our "Group" either. just for the record! i still love yall .. they cant take u guys away ! lol jen

I've got my feelings on this too but I still need to chew the fat while I think about them first before I take action...or maybe I should say the french fry!!! It really burned me up that he accused us of bragging about our "bad habits." We weren't bragging and I don't remember discussing anything about my bad habits at support group. I invited those around me to out to dinner with us afterwards to get the same wonderful support that I did. I think he has issues that we like our "support" group rather than he cheesy support groups lately. Ok, I need to stop about this. I'm still thinking and saying more would not be a good idea. Rachel

Out of curiosity, what did happen? I always miss the good stuff.. Just send it to me via my email [email protected], that way there will be no snooping! Mary

Amen! Kathy my work e-mail is [email protected]. Patti

writng that address down for future stalking purposes!

How childish! You are right, you are you and you control your own destiny. And you know what I have those chicken fingers and a fries as well. So have your chicken fingers. You are right about the gaining of a few lbs. You pick yourself up and get back on track. JUST LIKE A NORMAL PERSON! I am sorry you are going through this Julie

Jen and everyone else: Here's my e-mail, [email protected] - Don't want to lose the friends and support I've made on this board and at the meetings - just need to make it private (unfortunately). I had this surgery to live a "normal" life - and being with and listening to all of you who are further out gave me the hope and confidence that I can do this (and do it right) and still be normal. No scolding can take that away. THANK YOU ALL!!! Colleen

I couldn't even sleep last night because of this and I am posting my own message too. Kathy

I love you a lot.