My niece is coming to live with me

You know - I really don't know. But somehow I doubt it. However, I will be taking her to church with me every Sunday and during the week when I go, and getting her involved with my church family as much as possible. But because I am saved, anyone I associate with is also blessed. So at least she has armor of God's loved around her because of me until she accepts him as her Savior for herself. I am talking to my daughter about rules that I should enforce with Maegan. Basically, Madison is telling me the rules I should have had in placed and enforced when she was at home! And I will love her as if she is my own - I already do. Thank you and keep praying!!! Susan

Susan, this is terrific! you will be such a great influence for her, you are strong, smart and beautiful inside and out. I was a "problem" kid too and I eventually ( with similar guidance) figured out that I was only hurting myself with my behavior. She will find her way with your help and prayers. You are wonderful for doing this and she is lucky to have you!

Thank you, Sundi. I hope that she will listen to me and learn from me. She really is a sweet kid - I think she is just in with the wrong crowd and she needs some help dealing with her Mom's death, which the counselor will help with. I will be keeping a tight rein on her for a while until she gains some trust with me. Then I will let out the reins very, very slowly. I am lucky to have this chance to help my neice too so it is a win-win situation (I hope!) Susan

Susan, you are such a good person and I know that you will work things through with your niece. It sounds to me like not having a Mom around at a very important stage in her life has left a major void and I know having you to turn to will make a tremendous difference for this girl. Plus, being away from her old environment will give here a chance for a fresh start. Try to stay strong and we will be here if you need us. In the meantime, I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Susann

Thank you, Susann. I agree - she has a big void in her life and in her heart because of her mom's death. I don't mean for this to be taken the wrong way but when Mandy died, her father did not pick up and parent the way he should have. I know he had a lot a grief himself but he let Maegan slip through the cracks, if that makes sense. So, yes, I am hoping that Maegan will finally be able to begin to heal and with a mother-figure and lots of professional counseling, maybe she will be alright. Susan

Hey, I have an appointment Tuesday with Dr S. Your niece can haved my spot it you guys need it soon. I'm assuming this is who Madison was talking about. He helped Kelly a lot with grief after her father died last year. Call me if you need anything Mary

Mary, that is so generous of you! You are the sweetest person in the world. I don't want to take your appointment though. I'm calling Dr. S today to see when he can see her. Do you know if he takes Tri-Care Prime? Yes, this is the one Madison was talking about. BTW, Madison is coming down this weekend for the Cinco De Mayo party. She is coming down with 1 or 2 friends for the weekend. I'm so looking forward to it! She was so beautiful Saturday night for the Prom. I can't believe how far she has come in the last 7 months! She makes me proud. Susan

Seriously, If you think she needs it, I don't mind at all. Remember, I was so freaked out last week, he gave me his cell number. I'm better, so just let me know. Miranda comes in the office at 1 and starts answering the phones. I think he does tricare, but I'm not sure Mary PS I can't wait to see Madison again, she is so like you, gorgeous and sweet plus she's so proud of her Mom. You've done a good job taking care of your issues. Pat yourself on the back!!!!

Ramble all you want. You will do what is best for your neice. You are a good person. Just set the rules early and do not bend. You will be in my thoughts. Julie

Does Meagan know that she has a new Aunt?