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Rachel: I am sorry to hear that. My husband decided he didn't want to be married anymore after 31 years of marriage when I was 3 months out. Real shock to me. Wish you were closer because you could come stay with me. All I can tell you is to keep looking forward....and you will get through this. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Susann

Just to clarify...My husband was unfaithful to me. I found out he was having an affair when I was 4 months out!

Rachel, I am SO SORRY for all of your pain and heartache. I do understand your pain and if you ever want to talk or email privately please get in touch with me. I am not there in SC yet.... but will be visiting in June. I do agree that wls does seem to bring up a lot of emotions and difficulties in relationships. I am sending you a hug and a smile. Please hang on and stay as strong as you can. And don't isolate. I have been where you are at. hugs, J.

Thank you so much. Sadly, I am finding this to be a very common problem in marriages. And to think I never tought it would happen to me. Guess that's what you get for thinking!!

Hey Rachel, Sorry for all the crap your going through but I will be praying for you and your hubby to work things out if you can. I have a friend whos huband wanted her to get the surgery because of health reasons and now that she has lost all her weight and looks beautiful he doesnt want anything to do with her now. He tells her he liked her better before the surgery. What a MORAN!! what kind of man talks to his wife like that after all she has gone through? She is such a great person so I can imagine what your going through Rachel. Well stay strong and give it all to God and he will take care of it. God Bless You Denise

Rachel: I am so sorry that you are going through such a difficult time. I'll be on the lookout for a place for you. I'll call a couple of my old real-estate buddies to see what they have available, that is safe, and clean and a good fit for you. But most of all know that I will be praying for you and your husband. If you ever need to talk, just know I live right around the corner from you. Terri

Thanks. Please don't share this information with Crystal. She used to be our neighbor and that would really embarrass my husband. Rachel

Dear Rachel- Boys are dumb. Love Kathy

I know. I can't figure out how they can't learn to think with the head on their shoulders and not the one in the pants. I am so depressed today. All this sh&t happened because DH couldn't say no!!!

"I will survive, I will survive ... hey hey." Love you, Rachel. Dawn