Blues

Dawn! You are so wise... You made alot of good points there that Ididn't even think about. AND I love that your way of handling the hussie was not by backing off and ignoring it. I'll have to put that in my "just in case" file and hope I never have to use it. Kathy

YOU NEVER EVER BACK OFF FROM, OR IGNORE EVIL, MS KATHY ... THERE IS A VERY FAMOUS QUOTE THAT I HAVE ON MY PROFILE THAT SAYS ... "THE ONLY THING NECESSARY FOR THE TRIUMPH OF EVIL IS FOR GOOD MEN (& WOMEN) TO DO NOTHING." ~~ Edmund Burke ~~ EVIL GROWS WHEN WE DON'T CONFRONT IT, FIGHT IT & DEFEAT IT ... NO MATTER HOW SMALL OR HOW BIG IT APPEARS AT FIRST; IF YOU DON'T DEFEAT IT, IT GAINS POWER. YOU FIGHT IT IN A DIGNIFIED MANNER UNTIL THAT CAN'T BE ACCOMPLISHED ANY LONGER, & THEN YOU FIGHT IT WITH ALL YOU HAVE LIKE YOUR LIFE DEPENDS ON IT, BECAUSE IN A REAL POINT OF FACT, OUR LIVES DO DEPEND ON DEFEATING EVIL WHEREVER WE ARE FACED WITH IT. YOU MAY BE FIGHTING FOR YOUR OWN DIGNITY OR SAFETY ... OR, THE DIGNITY OR SAFETY OF OTHERS WHO MAY NOT BE ABLE TO FIGHT FOR THEMSELVES. AT SOME POINT, EVERYONE WILL HAVE TO STAND IN ONE CAMP OR THE OTHER. MY PLEASURE ... GLAD IT MADE YOUR "JUST IN CASE" FILE. GOD BLESS YOU ... DAWN & NICk

Have you ever thought of writing a book! That is wonderful advice. I'll have to remember that. Unfortunately my hormones were raging and I was pissed. I wanted blood. Also, I haven't thought about the death of my in law trigger feelings from my own father's death. That is probably the truth. Thanks again for the wonderful advice!! Rachel

BLOOD IS A GOOD CHOICE! JUST DON'T GET IT IN THE CARPET! MY PLEASURE. I'M GLAD IT HELPED, MS RACHEL!

Poor baby, and you was worried about me being down, sounds like we all need to get together for a heavy talking and drinking session, lol. We have all been through a lot having this surgery and I know it has a big affect on our entire body in more ways than we know. It is a big change physically and mentally and I find myself getting into moods for no real reason, also. Death is never easy to accept no matter what the situation is, I know, I see it everyday at the hosptial. No matter how long the family has been expecting their loved one to die, it still has a huge impact on them, not much different than someone dying unexpectedly, plus, everyone handles death in a different way. You and hubby need to sit down and talk about both of your feelings, don't let it go on and get worse. You need him as much as he needs you right now. And most importantly, don't let the green eyed monster (jealousy) come between you two, no hootchie is worth ruining your marriage over. Sometimes we can push someone we love away from us and unfortunetly there are women out there who are on the prowl just waiting for the right moment to make their move, just don't give them that moment. God I sound like a mother giving advice, but your a good person and I don't want to see you go through a bad time. Just know you have lots of friends out here that love you and care about you and you have lots of shoulders to lean on, just call any time if you need to talk. Mary

Thanks so much. I'm working on that green eyed monster!! There is a little more to the story. I'll share it with you later. Rachel