What's on your Wednesday Menu?
Good Morning. I didn't get a chance to read any responses yesterday so I will do that in a little bit.
An update on my mom. She has two blood clots in her right lung, a blood clot in each calf, and her left lower ventricle is pumping at 15%. Her heart rate is back to normal and she is on a heparin drip to help dissolve the clots. Other than that the doctors said she's in great shape for being 80. She does not have congestive heart failure like my sister said. She'll be in the hospital for a few more day at least which she hates, but at least she is getting rest that she needs.
I told my siblings that things need to change when she goes home like my nephew (who lives there) getting rid of the other dog he just brought back home with him from Alaska and half of the farm animals need to go. My stepfather just half asses takes care of them and then *****es about everything getting my mom all worked up. If none of them do anything then I will just have to be the bad guy and takes things into my own hands. People won't be happy but I'll be dam if my mom ends up back in the hospital or worse because of them.
QOTD: Do you think modern medicine uses everything that is available to doctors, or do you think they hold stuff for special situations? Sometimes I think there is stuff out there that could be used to treat different illnesses or conditions, but for whatever reason doctors don't use it or are told not to use it. Like my mom they have her on the heparin drip which they said they would try first to see if it helps dissolve the clots if not then there is a pill they can try and that doesn't work they are a few other things they can do. I guess it's just frustrating when doctors try this and that in hopes one of the things work.
B: coffee
L: tuna salad wrap
D: roasted chicken breast with peas
30 minutes on the treadmill
Have a wonderful day everyone.
on 1/29/25 5:50 am - Amarillo, TX
Good mornin y'all.
we have a vet visit to take Tange to. They just need to weigh her so we can get some preventative stuff.
yesterday was a terrifying day in a way. I won't delve into why as it's political but I am still worried about it.
I'm pretty sure I have thrush in my mouth. It started after the steroid injection. I tried to get in to my doctor but couldn't be seen until my regular check up on 2-28. So I started swishing with apple cider vinegar solution and it's helped immensely. It was just on my tongue.
QOTD: I believe both can be wonderful tools.
B: egg burrito and coffee
L: enchiladas
D: not sure on this one.
on 1/29/25 5:56 am - Amarillo, TX
PS. Sorry about your mom's situation. People are not always so smart. I hope you don't have to get "ugly" with them but you should be proud of yourself for standing up for your mom!
Good morning, everybody!
Jen, I hope things resolve well with your Mom. You are right that if she is on blood thinners, she needs to be careful about what she does and will need help.
My plane was a bit late, but I got in at about 4:00. Mostly I have just hung out, my program starts at 1:00 today and I have to go to the gym after a client call this morning.
I don't think that the normies who prepare breakfast can comprehend just how little eggs I am capable of eating, no matter how much I urge them to give me "just a little egg ", I am still overwhelmed. The workers do a great job and are super nice, I just feel bad about the wasted food.
QOTD: I am sure that they do.
Breakfast: ham and eggs
Lunch: pizza
Dinner: fish
Have a great day, all!
Jim Age 58 Height 6 Feet Consult Weight 344 SW 289 Pre-Surgery -55, M1 -25, M2 -16, M3 -21, M4 -10, M5 -5, M6 -1, M7 -4, M8 0, M9 +4, M10 -4
Rudy is the big winner of the leftovers. There's always something left for the doggie bag. He also gets the Meals on wheels meals my mom turns her nose up at all long as it does not contain anything on the No No list.
HW 299 SW 290 CW 139 GW 140 2/08/2019 OPERATION: Surgical Hernia with excision of total surface area of 55 x 29 cm of abdominal skin.
I have a sister who is always coming up with the worst possible diagnosis and I have seen her argue with the doctors when they tell her that is not what it is. Just their personality. I am so glad you mom does not have congestive heart failure and hope the heparin works for her.
I am 76, don't work, live alone, and just take care of my cat. I have help with everything. It bothers me sometimes that I do need help but I have accepted it. I am feeling angry hearing everything that your mom is putting up with.
She has wor ked hard all her life, I am sure, and should not be putting up with that crap. I am behind you 100% stepping in and getting them to make life as easy as possible for your mom.
I wonder if there are not a lot of things that they could do and just are cautious due to malpractice fears. I also know doctors often have a certain attitude that they know it all and nobody really knows it all. I feel most confident when they consult other specialists rather than making all decisions for themselves.
I went through about nine years with my husband's cancer and sometimes had to really fight with the insurance company about treatment options. They did finally assign me a person who coordinated everything for me but it was a nightmare for a while and cost did come into play. I researched on my own and argued when I needed to.
Good job looking after your mom.
Real life begins where your comfort zone ends
Good morning Jennifer and Menuers,
Thank God your mom is not as bad as first suggested by your sister. I am the bad guy when it comes to my mom's care. I do not care it is my way or no way. I am her executer and POA. To bad if they don't like it. Your mom's health is most important. Tonight, I got to take my mom to cards and then get another round of Pizzelles done. Currently I have 13 bakers dozens of the Anis flavored ones done, tonight we will start on the almond flavor.
QOTD: I absolutely believe they have cures for diseases but do not use them. If everyone was healthier big pharma, medical institutions, The government, health insurances would not be able to rake us over the coals with medical expenses. I work on the edge of medical because I sell medical supplies, and it is ridiculous the cost of the items I sale. It is all political in my opinion.
Accountability: Grazed dinner. I did not take the time to sit with a meal i just kept grabbing bites.
TSS: 7 years 1-months 18-days 168 Lowest (129.4)
B: Coffee with SF Coffee-Mate Chocolate Caramel creamer
MS: L & F creme brulee Greek yogurt and snack select,
CB: Coffee with SF Coffee-Mate Chocolate Caramel creamer
L: Beef noodle soup and berries
D: Grilled Chicken thighs and cauliflower
Exercise: Dog walking
Water and Vitamins: On track. I take a Bariatric Advantage Ultra multi w/iron I use bariatric advantage Calcium chews and 500mg of Magnesium. I also use MiraLAX and fiber in my first coffee of the day.
Have a great day my friends.
Brightest blessings
Chrissy
HW 299 SW 290 CW 139 GW 140 2/08/2019 OPERATION: Surgical Hernia with excision of total surface area of 55 x 29 cm of abdominal skin.
Good Morning! I'm glad your mom is getting the rest she needs and I hope the medication helps. Pretty typical day for me as we plug along through the week.
QOTD: I do feel things are always evolving and being tested.
TSS: 10 years 5 months
B: SF latte, 3 turkey sausage links, and an orange
L: Turkey and cheese sticks, oikos yogurt and some fruit
S: A piece of fruit and yogurt
D: I haven't decided yet
ES: Protein ice cream and carbmaster toast
E: 1/2 hour elliptical and 2 miles on treadmill
V/W: On track
Totals: TBD
Have a great day!
Good morning all and Happy Wednesday,
It's this guy's 5th Birthday today. My nephew, Ezra:
Lady Godiva - Glad you're getting answers and cracking the whip to make sure your mom has a more healthy living environment.
My dog and I are having an argument of how often he should get his nails clipped. His viewpoint of never getting them cut seems a little biased.
I'm at Starbucks getting organized for the day and working on my taxes.
QOTD- I'm in both camps. On one hand, I understand that doctors need to go through certain steps to identify and fix the issue. I respect that and normally let them do their thing without much question. On the other side, I've had two doctors in the last year, Neurologist and Orthopedic Surgeon, who I've called out on inaccurate information, unnecessary tests, given prescriptions that possibly dangerously conflict with my current script regimen, etc. My neurologist wasted three months calling for an EMG for my lower nerves. When I finally got to the appt, the EMG doctor said, this isn't the right test but since you're here, we'll do the wrong test anyway. I chalked it up to a simple mistake. When asked the Neurologist about it, he tried to explain it away but called me a customer. I went to his colleague instead and am getting much better care.
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B: Dannon Light and Fit Coconut Yogurt, 1/2 fairlife shake.
L: smoked Pulled pork no sauce, vinegar slaw.
D: rotisserie chicken salad on lettuce. Carrot sticks. 7 Junior mints for dessert.
S: string cheese.
HW: 371 SW(8/9/21): 324 CW: 215. 0 lbs til goal of skin reduction surgery. I'm still looking for a new plastic surgeon.
"Every day is a good day. There is something to learn, care and celebrate." - Amit Ray