What's on your Wednesday Menu?

Partlypollyanna
on 7/17/24 3:55 am
RNY on 02/14/18

Mel, sometimes people are ******** You really can't control how people behave, only how you respond to them, and (sometimes) what you hang on to and what you don't. I hope you and your mom can get into a healthier relationship. Can your counselor or peer partner help you with some ideas of what to do in the moment to disengage?

HW: 306 SW: 282 GW: 145 (reached 2/6/19) CW:150

Jen

Melody P.
on 7/17/24 4:40 am - Amarillo, TX

That's a good idea and I'll talk to them about it. Most of the time I do just let it slide off my back. It may still bother me but I won't engage with her. I need a healthier way to deal with it for sure.

Ever since her mini stroke she is a more combative person. Sometimes I have a hard time dealing with that. Thanks for the suggestion and I'll definitely be talking to my support folks about it!

Mel

White Dove
on 7/17/24 8:56 am - Warren, OH

I know this is not supposed to be the correct thing to do but sometimes I have to engage with a person and be meaner and more insulting than they are. Because I am normally quiet and easy going, it is shock when I do that. I tell people that I have a very long fuse, but it is still a fuse and if you try for long enough, you will see an explosion.

Real life begins where your comfort zone ends

Emiepie
on 7/17/24 5:20 am
RNY on 08/11/14

You've got lots of heavy things on your plate, sending hugs.

RNY 8/11/14 with Dr. Kelvin Higa PS Lipectomy 4/12/17 with Dr. John Burnett HW291.4/CW165/GW150

Melody P.
on 7/18/24 12:28 am - Amarillo, TX

Thank you so much!

Mel

Dcgirl
on 7/17/24 3:31 am - DC
RNY on 12/16/13

Gooood morning! Your QOTDs are always so great. Hmm. Maybe I could gold medal in pizza? Pre-WLS, even a little in recent years, not now with Wegovy. I went out with a friend last night and had one chicken tender and about 5 bites of pizza which was the perfect amount (it was a sports bar). Anyway it's nice to feel some sort of restriction (mental more than physical).
Big day for me - I have a consult with a doctor for something that I need to get done that will greatly enhance my quality of life so it will feel good to maybe get a plan together! No gym today due to gallivanting to the doctor.

Eats today are more of the same - grill. Geese, chicken thighs, chicken sausage. Nothing exciting but all tasty!

Have a wonderful day!

Partlypollyanna
on 7/17/24 3:42 am
RNY on 02/14/18

I know you are not eating grilled geese

HW: 306 SW: 282 GW: 145 (reached 2/6/19) CW:150

Jen

Dcgirl
on 7/17/24 4:35 am - DC
RNY on 12/16/13

Ha! Do people eat geese? That is most definitely not on my menu. I meant grilling cheese from Trader Joe's lol. Much more delicious than I anticipate what those mean birds who leave awful green poops must taste like! We used to have a pond out back from our office and the geese were mad aggressive!

Greateight
on 7/17/24 4:56 am
RNY on 08/29/18

Scrooge did. Didn't he send Tiny Tim out for the biggest goose he could find?

Jim Age 58 Height 6 Feet Consult Weight 344 SW 289 Pre-Surgery -55, M1 -25, M2 -16, M3 -21, M4 -10, M5 -5, M6 -1, M7 -4, M8 0, M9 +4, M10 -4

Partlypollyanna
on 7/17/24 5:01 am
RNY on 02/14/18

Jinx!

HW: 306 SW: 282 GW: 145 (reached 2/6/19) CW:150

Jen

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