Lack of support/insensitive spouse
the food situation is hard. my DH and mom ate chickfila sandwiches and fries in the CAR with me a few days out. it was terrible for me to have to smell it.
I would not look to him for support and build it within yourself and this community.
also would check into therapy for the issue of not resisting and chewing some before you spit it out. 5 days out is dangerous road for you to go down. trust me it only gets harder...
best wishes
HW 305 SW 278 Surgery weight 225 GW 160 LW: 118.8
RNY 12/15/2015,
GB removal 09/2016,
Twisted bowel/hernia repair 08/2017
M1 Dec 2015-13.0, M2-7.0, M3-14.5, M4-9.4, M5-7.1, M6 9.8, M7-7.6 ,M8- 7.6, M-9 5.5, M10-6.4, M11- 2.2, M12 Dec 2016- 5.8
on 12/19/17 7:21 am
There are two sides to this story:
One, your husband is being insensitive! Didn't you talk through this in the months leading up to surgery? Didn't he say he'd support you? You need to talk through some of your feelings and get the doctor involved if need be.
Two, get a grip! My wife used to hide when she ate and that made me feel horrible. It was my choice to have WLS (RNY) and it became my burden. Having to slowing introduce solids and eliminate certain foods was my choice! 14 months later and 125 pounds less NO ONE can discourage me. I'm too excited for me to let any one take me down.
One the other hand, tell him to learn a little empathy and stop being a schmuck!
