MESSAGE BOARDS AGAIN
I'm very sorry for your distress. As with most free sites, we do offer the option to make your profile private, but if you don't AND you use your real name, then google can access it and put it in their database.
* If you want privacy you have two options available to you:
1. Use a fake name. That's MY preferred option. (If you want to change your name, log in, choose General Info and then just change your first/last name to whatever).
2. Check the box on your profile's General Info page to make it private. But then nobody but you can see your profile. It's up to you.
If I can assist you with anything further, do let me know - any of those in Member Services, by using the contact us link in the upper right corner of the page.
~Tooter
OH Staff