My first Seminar

This is a hard journey to go through without support, esp from your husband.  My husband also was very against me having surgery.  I sat with him, asked him why and we talked.  He didn't know much about it, oher than the very negative things in the press- esp about deaths.  It really came down to his fear of losing me and not knowing enough about surgery.  I linked him to a couple of websites where he got some real information and he also poked around on this site as well.  He still was not whole heartedly behind my decision, but he at least was there for me and supports me in this journey