Sooo Sadd!!!

I am sooooo sadd!!! I once again have had to miss an outing!! I just want to first start by apologizing. I am sorry to let people down you know who you are. I want to go and need to go you see after having my wls and getting married all of my friends ( well I guess they were friends) did not want anything to do with me. So now going out entails hanging with hubbys friends. I now have LB and other WLS friends to hang out with well we are trying to anyone but having a dificult time with planning.  I am also Having a hard time blending my 2 familes if you know what I mean( WLS and my reg family).Sorry feeling lonely, thank you for letting me vent and get it out I know you all would understand!!! SO I will try my dardenst to go on the 19th or will go.On a better note I hope you all have a great week!!  DD 

Hey D, I hope you're feeling better soon. I know it's easy to get down this time of year. Better and brighter days are ahead. Spring has sprung! I haven't experienced any problems with blending yet. Basically, my family thinks it's about time I get a life outside of my home, family and long-time friends. I really hope you can get to Angela's Saturday. It really helped for me to get out last night. I had only planned to stay until around 9 or so and ended up not getting home until midnight! It was great! PM any time you wanna vent or chat and just need someone else to know how crappy you're feeling. Jules

I understand the feelings.. I dont hang with anyone when im in NH... and my fiancee is in freakin Canada... grrrrr. But i think we will be able to attend the april support meeting at RW. woohooooo. He is visiting for 2 weeks! It gets lonely.. and between working and traveling... it get me down too. I just do the best i can... thats all i can expect of me or anyone. Be well!!

Hey Diana! We definitely missed you last night and wish you could have been there. I want you to know that you can talk to me anytime, as I can see in your post you are struggling with things, and I want you to know that I'm here for you. We are at work together for 8 hours a day!! You have plenty of time to come by and chat if you need to talk! I want you to participate in the RI OH events because we have fun and because having you there just makes it MORE fun! You know that you and Paul are both welcome whenever we plan things, so feel free to take him too!

I know what you mean about blending friends, but I have more WLS friends than anything, and I'm happy with that! You understand me, and make me feel comfortable, thats why I like to be around WLS people!

Hopefully you will be able to come to Angela's and to the RW meeting this month... I'll see you tomorrow and plan on having lunch w/ me so we can talk!

Love you.

Laura

I so understand about always hanging with hubby's friends.  It was amazing that mine came with me last night, had to practically drag him kicking and screaming.  I had given him the, I don;t care if you are coming or not- but I am, and he finally gave in.  He is not big on going out, esp with people he doesn't know.  He did get to relax and had some fun!  Schedules are always crazy, mine is non stop with boys sports, dog shows, etc.  I realized that I needed some "me time" and took it.  Everything else took a backseat, because it was on my calendar well in advance.  I had a ton of fun! Hopefully you can get to sneak away with us next time!  We missed ya!