*SECRETS* What's in your closet?

Dawn McLaughlin
on 7/30/07 1:46 am - Norh Providence, RI
Have you ever had one secret revenge, once you had help with the surgery? Me?  I have a secret revenge on my sister-in-law and my father-in-laws wife. No, she will never be called Step mother by any means. Okay... the S-I-L is somewhat chubby, she has her little bout's like the rest of us, no big deal, right?  CHAA... She has the tendancy to stick the ole' nose up in the air and make you feel like you are so unworthy to be around... especially going into HER built in pool. Hard to discribe her... she's just a "I fell into wealth (stock before 9-11) and I have this & that and you're a piece of doooo now"  ... she's a definate attention getter!!!! Poor MOE!!!!! GRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!! F-I-L-Wifey.... she's nothing compared to MOE but makes you feel like you're a failure no matter what... and had to deal with it once again with my weight and dieting not to long ago. SO, come Thanksgiving, they will not have seen me in four months and I hope they eat their hearts out. Because all they'll see is themselves in the mirror everyday wishing it was them! This is a very personal goal... and can't wait to entertain you all on the results.  I know, I sound mean, but Oh well... like there's one in all of us!
kimac61
on 7/30/07 6:36 am - Cranston, RI

Hi Dawn!

You are not the only one who feels this way! 

Mine is with my mom!  All her life she had the figure of an hour glass and was very glamerous....well to make a long story short she doesn't like the fact of her aging and she is miserable and I think she has developed a small case of alstimers (spellin!) ..

Well last week I went and showed her some pictures of our mini vacation to NH and she made a comment on a few pictures of me - I didn't say anything but she then asked me why I was mad and I told her right out - I AM SICK AND TIRED OF HER MAKING FUN OF MY WEIGHT.. and I ran out of her house crying....  My dad told her that was her daughter she was talking about - I KNOW in his eyes that I STILL AM DADDY'S LITTLE GIRL no matter how big I am or what I look like

My parents do not know about my plans for this surgery BUT like you I can't wait for the pound to start dropping so then I CAN SHOW HER!

SO I SAY RIGHT ON TO THE BOTH OF US and all the others that have such the same!

Kim

NO LONGER OVERWEIGHT!

 




Dawn McLaughlin
on 7/30/07 11:16 am - Norh Providence, RI
It sounds to me like you rectified that situation. You stood up for yourself to the one that was hurting you... your Mom. You need not go through any operation to prove anything to her. Just be there for you and no other worries. I wish I could, but it's not my family, but family on my hubbies side and I would never dare hurt my husband in that way by creating hell for him, or else....^$#@&  LOL  I think they know it too, thats why they enjoy busting my azz. I am not having this surgery just to pay them back... I am having it for my health and happiness only... the Secret Revenge is just a bonus in all of it.
nicsmomma
on 7/30/07 1:08 pm

Hi Dawn.  I have to say I definitely have a revenge.  It is for my ex husband.  As you notice I said EX.  We were married for 11 years.  I was heavy when we met and got married, but I did gain weight during the course and also had a child.  We ended up divorcing mostly due to my weight.  He said he was embarassed to be seen with me in public and the sight of me repulsed him.  I, unfortunately, still have to see him on a weekly basis as we have a child together.  I went to the doctors today and my total is 32 lbs after 6 weeks.  I am sure he has noticed and can't wait to be thinner and shove it in his face.  I did this surgery for me, but deep down I really want to say I lost the weight, but you are still an a#$hole. 

Anyway, no more venting.  Good luck and congrats to everyone.

Dawn McLaughlin
on 7/30/07 8:30 pm - Norh Providence, RI
Believe me when I say, that msg will get through without the words! Congrat's on your fabulous 32 lbs!!
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