Exactly 3 weeks......21 days til surgery........NERVES SET IN!
Wow, Shel, you really DO have a lot going on. I'm amazed at how pulled together you sound. Even with all of this, you are obviously a very strong person. That will help you with your WLS success.
Sorry to hear about your marriage. I know that even when these decisions are mutual and/or necessary, they're never easy. It sounds like he's still a great support for you, so that's good.
Keep up the positivity...
Hugs, and take care,
Trace