Is that what you call it when you get experimental in the bedroom and use a little honey? A ****waffle--I like it, it's catchy! Hope your husband enjoyed it Phyllis!

Frances ..Ya gotta do what ya gotta do and if the band must comeout the band comes out!..You will decide what, when ,or "if" you want antother surgery ... maybe you need some time to see how your health is improving after band removal before getting another weight loss surgery... that might be best .. but you are the one who knows your body best,whatver happens we understand. I always try to remember.. "There but for the grace of God . there go I" any one of us may have to face what you are now facing in the future please know I am behind you 100% I just want you to feel better and get your health back!

Such sad news and shocking, he is so young but he does seem to have a good chance at beating this and he has good freinds like you plus a good family by his side . Try and keep up hopes and see what happpens, I understand your feelings oh so well ..it brings back a heartbreaking memeory for me !

Wow...Frances, what an end to a long week for you. Whatever you go through, you know you can always count on us to support you. I hope this is over soon for you and that you come out healthy and happy. Please keep us posted. - Ann PS....Can I just add that your manager sounds like an insensitive jerk! I have asthma. It's contolled now but many years ago I used to be hospitalized several times a year for it. I had a boss (I guess he thought he was being nice) that told me I should take off 3 or 4 mo's and just get it treated so I could stop being out for a week at a time. I was never one to stay out of work....I'd get home and go right back to work. He must have thought it was TB or something....Go figure!