Oh hell...why not...I'll be moving to a DS free zone anyway..... Buckeye Sylvia: You are truly one of the lowes****tage bulbs in the drawer. I mean on this very thread it was explained why this "international forum" is being used by bandsters as a band vet forum. Since I know that you have attacked Phyllis in the past it doesnt suprise me that you are here under the pretense of sticking up for the Red Dress-Yawl-batting-her-eyelashes-DS-spokeswoman. Why do the same 2 or 3 of you always show up? Does she PM you or something? By the way Irish Myst....who is otherwise known around these parts as "green fart" did attack me on the R&R forum but was cowardly enough to block most of us. (I believe your name was mentioned too) I didnt go defend myself against what she had to say because she is a boil on the butt of humanity....and no one cares. So no...its not simply an issue of self respect...its an issue of ALWAYS trying to provoke people into a fight..thats also why you are here.

Until you get to a place where you can see, and accept and maybe even admit that your original procedure choice did not serve you well...and that it was not YOUR fault that it didn't work...then you are still a band-victim. I feel bad for you. My family loved me when I was MO, too. Only now they ENJOY the fact that they are not dragging a disabled person along with them...and I enjoy not being a burden to them. We get to be seated in the restaurant when there is a booth and we don't have to wait for a table. My husband doesn't have to give over half his airline seat to me. I am able to accompany them to fun activities. I don't have to be dropped off at the door because I can't make the hike from the parking lot. My hairdresser can even raise the chair without getting leg cramps!! And, I'm more fun for them to be around. (Or so they tell me.) Morbidly obese people CANNOT live life to the fullest. The fact that they are MO means that they are dying. That is the antithesis of living...to the fullest or otherwise. that's sad. Sue

Everything is fine. I am sorry that Beth deactivated and I am not happy that others are unhappy. I should have not responded the way I did. We give others way too much consideration.