One last time, please....
Chelle B.
on 3/8/08 10:40 am
on 3/8/08 10:40 am
I hope so, Nancy, but I have the feeling the something is broken and the blame is all on me. I've been on these forums with all of you for years now, and this is the first time that I have really thought about leaving. It does not feel good to have friends so angry with me.
Honey, I know what you are trying to say and I do think that if we post 'inviting' posts, it will start some DS-band spats. I don't post to that crap. I don't read that crap. I just wanted to jump in here and say I know what you were trying to say and that your message got lost.
If people want to post and create drama, then go for it, but then don't complain when the DS people get offended and start posting here. I honestly don't think Nancy's post was offensive, but unfortunately it still started something.
Can't we just go back to being a supportative group (to newbies, vets, and friends)?
Nancy W
on 3/8/08 12:21 pm
on 3/8/08 12:21 pm
Alyssa,
That's what we've always been, supportive. Nothing has changed.
I think what we've all learned is that someone is always listening. I had NO IDEA that anyone outside of our little group would even be interested in reading our posts. We're mostly a bunch of middle aged women who talk about their families and food. Big whoop!
My generic mention of DSers was pretty tame and in no way warranted what we got out of it. Not sure if you were talking about me or Nancy J.
Oh no! I don't even know what you said to anyone (once I see the drama... I exit the post). I read the first post and see if I want to reply. I didn't even think Nancy J's post was "inappropriate" or offensive to anyone...
I just don't care for this drama! I am going to be 25, busy with school and other life obstacles... I don't need added drama online!
Oh well. Lets just try to ignore the nastiness?