Lost my temper today

Kate, you are a kind person and even when you are offering firm support, you do so with class and kindness. And you have indeed found what works for you and have employed it beautifully. You are a true inspiration. Glad you are back posting with us.

What annoys me most is how this lady (and all these types) cause the drama, get everyone arguing in support or against them, and then simply walk away from the fight they caused/started.

As long as she stays away, that will be fine. I usually avoid her, but I had my limit. How are you doing?

Hi Phyllis! I know the post you are talking about and I was pissed when I read it as well. I told the person you are talking about how it was uncalled for. I think you were just standing up for a girl that needs our guidance and was already made to feel like she shouldnt be posting questions for fear of excatly what happened to her. I applaud you for that! Hugs Barbara

Barbara, underneath my cool laid back exterior, lies a very hot head. I hold back and let things slid, but when I lose it, people see a side of me that may be a bit of a shock. My husband calls me sweet but mean. But I try to reserve that side of me for the truly deserving. Thanks for your understanding.

Love that avatar, too! You're too, sexy for your own good! ha Well, I didn't see the post, but read about it on the Rant, and Raves. it was MWG, right? Can be aggravating to say the least! You are really good at makeing a great point, and seeming SO mellow at the same time, hon! I feel bad for the newbie! Why is it, people think they have the right to judge others, and tell thiem (This is what they HAVE to do)??? Well, good to see you here, Phyllis!

Thanks Sharon, I try to see the good side of people and I give everyone the benefit of the doubt. I am also very forgiving. Sometimes I just have to let go of people and situations for my own good, but it is hard. I think this surgery is hard in so many ways and I consider this board to be a lifeline to me and many others and I really don't like it when people abuse it for their own sick gratification. I love my kind OH friends.

Phyllis....if YOU blasted someone, they truly deserved it! You may have that volcano inside of you, but in all this time, I've only seen you go after someone when they have stepped so far over the line that they offend everyone. I missed the drama thankfully, but I'm glad it was pulled....and I'm also glad to be here on the peaceful island. A

Anita, I am an island girl by nature, so maybe I need to spend more time over here for my mental health. And when we all get to goal we can get matching bikinis!!!!